Anexando otro anécdota ajaja déjenme contar algo muy gracioso incluso para ese mismo año 2018, se hizo una fiesta sorpresa para la dueña de un restaurante que hacía comidas a la empresa donde trabajaba mi hermana (quien había organizado todo era la jefa de mi hermana que había pedido prestada nuestra casa porque donde estaba alquilada la empresa no podían realizar la fiesta) se llevó a cabo el evento, con carne asada, parrilla, torta, sonido en fin... Una fiesta significativa para la cumpleañera. Al siguiente día había reunión en el sector por algunos puntos que iban a plantear para tratar, cuando mi mamá llega al lugar de la reunión me dice que comienzan a felicitarla y ella sorprendida no dice nada solo se pregunta por qué, hasta que llega otro persona y le dice "Ay Maira Felicidades que bueno tu hija menor se casó la fiesta que tenían ayer parecía estar buena" ( la hija menor soy yo AJAJAJA) a mi mamá no le quedó de otra que pensar en que las personas sin saber corren información y no tienen prudencia.
Adding another anecdote ajaja let me tell something very funny even for that same year 2018, a surprise party was made for the owner of a restaurant that made meals to the company where my sister worked (who had organized everything was the boss of my sister who had borrowed our house because where the company was rented they could not hold the party) the event took place, with grilled meat, grill, cake, sound in short .... A meaningful party for the birthday girl. The next day there was a meeting in the sector for some points that they were going to raise to address, when my mom arrives at the meeting place she tells me that they begin to congratulate her and she surprised does not say anything just wondering why, until another person arrives and says "Ay Maira Congratulations that good your youngest daughter got married the party they had yesterday seemed to be good" (the youngest daughter is me AJAJAJAJA) my mom had no choice but to think that people without knowing run information and have no prudence.
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Fueron dos de tantos casos que me marcaron y me llevaron a pensar y a deducir que no siempre lo que los demás dicen puede ser totalmente cierto y que lo primero que hay que notar es ¿con qué intención lo cuenta?, ¿cómo es la forma de trasmitirlo? y, sí está seguro de lo que dice. Por eso hoy día sólo escucho y de alguna forma le pregunto a quien me esta transmitiendo la información si esta seguro de lo que me dice, si noto desconfianza lo doy a entender porque soy de las que piensa que es bueno dejar claro a los demás que no somos tontos. Es importante hacerle ver a la persona que no se ha creído en su palabra y que sí tiene alguna intención con ello no lo va a lograr, porque hay quienes usan a otras personas de instrumento indirecto para llevar información errónea lo que llega a causar malos entendidos.
These were two of many cases that marked me and led me to think and to deduce that what others say may not always be totally true and that the first thing to notice is, with what intention do they tell it, how is the way of transmitting it, and if they are sure of what they are saying.That is why nowadays I only listen and somehow I ask the person who is transmitting the information if he is sure of what he is telling me, if I notice distrust I make it clear because I am one of those who think that it is good to make it clear to others that we are not fools. It is important to make the person see that they have not believed in their word and that if they have any intention with it, they will not succeed, because there are those who use other people as an indirect instrument to carry erroneous information, which can cause misunderstandings.
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El hecho De hablar sin conocer influye mucho en el bienestar de la persona de la cual se genera el rumor puesto que, si se dice algo que no sea verdad llegaría a causar crisis emocionales consigo mismo, por ejemplo: hay personas que se preocupan mucho por lo que los demás piensen de ellos por reputación o dignidad así estén consiente que lo que han dicho no es cierto, sufren porque tiene mucha relevancia lo que cree y piensa el entorno. Debo admitir que antes me pasaba le tomaba mucha importancia a eso, y me frustraba el que no creyeran en mi palabra sino en la de los demás hasta que llegué a comprender que no soy dueña del pensamiento ni puedo controlar lo que las demás personas digan, mientras yo esté consiente de la realidad la tranquilidad en mi debe permanecer.
The fact of speaking without knowing greatly influences the welfare of the person of which the rumor is generated since, if you say something that is not true would cause emotional crises with himself, for example: there are people who are very concerned about what others think of them by reputation or dignity and are aware that what they have said is not true, suffer because it has much relevance what the environment creates. I must admit that I used to take a lot of importance to that, and I was frustrated that they did not believe in my word but in the word of others until I came to understand that I am not the owner of the thought nor can I control what other people say, while I am aware of the reality the tranquility in me must remain.
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