Faded garden memories

in HiveGarden11 months ago (edited)

Most of the kids I grew up with preferred playgrounds as their main place of fun, but I and a few of my friends spent most of our summer evenings with my mother and their moms in garden, which was just near to the river. It wasn't just our garden; the entire area was for the gardening of every household in the village, so everyone had their own plot right next to one other. Every evening, we rode our bikes there, carrying only the most necessary tools, as turning right after crossing the bridge meant the end of the scorching air that raised from the hot asphalt. As soon as possible, I would take off my shoes and keep walking the path barefoot.

My favorite toy was the water pump, which was placed at the front of the garden; I would hang all of my weight on the handle while it slowly slid down and pumped out water. And in the moments when mom was busy watering the plants, I made sure to give myself one fair splash of water all over my feet and thirsty warm sand. That part was otherwise forbidden due to the cold water and my mother's fear that I would catch a cold, but there was nothing that would stop me. Then, at some point, every kid "from the garden" would meet and get down to the river, some with pockets full of stones and others with twig as fishing rods. I'm not sure how I managed to avoid mosquito bites back then, when there were swarms of them, wouldn't dare nowadays.
When we were hungry, everyone would go back to their garden and pick ripe fruits, usually tomatoes and cucumbers, which we would wash briefly in water and eat like apples.
I would crawl between the rows of potatoes, semi-muddy and pleased, watching how the sand sticks to my feet, covering them as if I were wearing shoes; my mother's constant warnings to "put on some shoes" did not yield; I just refused to put on any shoes. Until the very last moment of leaving, which means only one more splash of water from the pump. Collecting adult potato beetles was given to me as a chore; at the time, we were not using pesticides on the fields, and I still felt horrible about killing a "beautiful" bug, so I buried some live ones on a couple of times - not sure how that helped.

The fireflies would come out from their hiding places before sunset, turning the gardens into a magical world, flying over the plants and us, inviting us to chase them, which we did! The air would smell deafeningly of the dust of freshly harvested wheat fields. The first black layer of the night meant packing up and leaving home, which was also the saddest part, since as we rode away from the garden on our bikes, firebugs alternately glowed in the fields behind us. The worst thing is that when we moved the garden to the house thanks to increased thievery, it was still pleasant to wander around barefoot in the moist dirt and puddles, pick and eat veggies, but the river was no longer there, the firebugs were no longer present, and the roar of playful children no longer filled the silence of the village.

The pump was the thing I missed the most, honestly. Yes, I've got other toys like watering hose, but that wasn't fun at all.

Collecting potato bugs stayed my responsibility, regardless of where the garden was located; their yellow marks on the skin were still obvious every early summer; I just didn't bury them alive any more. There are still plots along the river, although only few people still grow gardens there...

Huh, who knew that this part of my childhood gardening memories would ever find it's place to tell about it?
This was a nice throwback to my very first garden ever, in case you wanna share some, check out @gardenhive and find out new monthly not so ordinary and creative gardening challenge!

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What a passionate and meticulous piece you’ve written. You really placed your readers right there in the setting.

Precious memories like these are a blessing to have and to cherish. It’s easy to see how you have kept such memories close with having a rich foundation such as this.

I’m glad to see the idea of community gardens coming back alive. This is something my family and I are working towards now so that generations to come will have access to growing their own foods freely ~

Thanks for a great read. 😊

First and foremost, thank you for the compliments (it made me smile, shy smile).

I've maybe not been lucky to enjoy other modern benefits of childhood, but I was never forbidden to sniff, explore and watch how the things are unfolding around family homestead (endlessly grateful on that experience), we were included in everything!

Back then it was sometimes too much, nowadays I couldn't be more happier knowing how to "survive" and be in-dependable when it comes about food. Also I had no idea that I would EVER write and share such a things anywhere on the internet, must say thank you to the Hive garden community, member's and each feedback I'm getting - motivational fuel!

Glad to hear someone is still doing that kind of education inside the family, it worth's more than anyone could imagine.

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You’re very welcome. 😉

I love including our kiddos in everything. I hope when they grow up they feel the same way about the privilege and benefits of being around gardening.

So glad you are able to write here, share and express yourself. It’s always good to have that motivation to do so. 🌱

 11 months ago  

What a lovely memory! And well told. I am right there with you.

I adore fireflies, and the magical scene they make. Here in the US, the fireflies don't need to be near water, but are everywhere. Being in a flower garden when the fireflies are at their height are the most wonderful nights of the summer.

I'm so glad you have recovered this memory, and chose to tell us of it.

We don't have them around here anymore and that is a huge disappointment, not sure what happened...

Thank you, pleasure was mine, I'm glad you enjoyed it (:

 11 months ago  

Absolutely beautiful. It shows your 'roots' are firmly in the soil, seeds planted at childhood. No wonder you choose a life of gardening even now.

The way you describe everything is so beautifully evocative. Just a gorgeous piece of writing and EXACTLY the kind of piece I was hoping to read.

@buckaroobaby, @fermentedphil don't miss this one.

What an incredible memory! Thanks so much for tagging me @riverflows. I agree about your roots, @alt3r you certainly had a good "grounding". I loved reading this. It took me to your childhood as one of the children laughing in the garden and splashing in the river. Special memory

@alt3r you certainly had a good "grounding".

I couldn't even imagine how much that means to me nowadays.

as one of the children laughing in the garden and splashing in the river.

Was you the one hunting crabs in the deep?:D Every single word is much appreciated, thank you for your feedback !LUV

Exactly! Me and the crabs 😎

 11 months ago  

Thank you so much @alt3r for sharing such an intimate moment of your history and memories with us and @riverflows for guiding my eyes to the post! Wow, so beautiful and I really love the aspect of communal gardening though. Getting the whole community to gather and grow and chat and probably cook together! Here in Sunny South Africa, we live in segregated gated communities and the idea of community and community gardening is something foreign to us (who live the western lifestyle at least). Getting people, not just the young ones, to share in growing food would be such an awesome thing to do here! Thanks again for sharing a bit of hope in your intimate memory.

Hey there!

Thank you for taking your time and reading my lines :]

Well, even tho my country belongs to the western world and its way of life, at least now, it was not like that before, especially in the countryside.

People helped each other far more than is the case today, unfortunately that whole area is now empty, few people still have a garden there, but the most common are plots with large corn and fodder crops. The locals are no longer so close to each other, I don't know what has changed (or I do), however the memories are there to last and to be protected from oblivion.

 11 months ago  

Luckily you have these memories. I am not sure what caused it in your case, but where I live people have become so self-centered and focused on themselves. People cannot even think about growing something in public because they will either destroy it, or they will steal it. It is such a sad turn of events. Community is so important.

People cannot even think about growing something in public because they will either destroy it, or they will steal it.

There is your answer, selfishness, recklessness I can go on and on, however I'm sure we are on the same page when it comes about community.
It's on the global level almost unavoidable.

 11 months ago  

Maybe one day we will again return to a better world where people will join in growing communal foods. I have this utopian idea in which everyone helps grow food on the streets; trees are planted to provide shade for cara but the fruits and nuts are used for sustenance. Where trees cannot be planted, berries and leafy greens are cultivated. Alas, one might hope for such a future. Thanks you for the reply! Stay well.

Thank you for such an inspirational challenge @riverflows, happy it sounds and looks the way it does in my memory! (:

 11 months ago  

Hahah great tune to emphasis the nostalgia of your childhood! Im loving reading the responses so far and hope I can come up with some good prompts for next month!!

Yeah, it's like a curse when kid rushing to grow up and vice versa,but it's priceless to have those memories and experience!

My favorite toy was the water pump, which was placed at the front of the garden; I would hang all of my weight on the handle while it slowly slid down and pumped out water.

In my grandparents' house on my father's side, over the well, there was one. Red in color. I remember I loved to do that, when I was a child, I would barely get a thin trickle of water with that thing... they would always tell me, stand back, we'll be here all day to fill the bucket.

Pero esas plantas (parecen cebollas) dan un fruto llamado Nikon ;) qué suerte tienes

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Yes, the dark red one, that's the one!!!
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I didn't care about filling the buckets, all I cared was to entertain myself as much as possible 😂

Ahhahaha, Nikon sprouted 6 years ago!
You made me laugh with this one....

!LUV

Nena... team edit. Please! 😂
!PIZZA

😝 4ever!

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@nanixxx(1/5) tipped @alt3r

What lovely memories! It must have been amazing having all that to do each evening.

Hey @goldenoakfarm, I can't complain, only it went by quickly.😉