Attending My Friend Funeral with my Boy

Hi, I am Arveno from Surabaya city. in this content i want to share about really worst news that i got from my ex co worker from the office.
One of my collague was dead. She got cancer that no one knows except her husband and her family. And no one in office know about her sick until she got surgery last January. And for your information, she was diagnosed Breast Cancer. I dont know much about cancer. But, right now after she died due cancer,now i already have 3 friends that died caused by cancer. I know that cancer is really scary on our life. I am afraid too if i got cancer and i dont want to diagnosed cancer too. Thats why i am starting to stop smoking and vaping. Also right now i am starting workout and gym in home. Okay after heard about this devastated news, i immediately contacting my old collagues and finding out the information and i got that she got cremated at Wednesday. And yeah my day was hectic especially at Monday, full workload and answering all the question and need to reconnect all collagues.

Okay i will skip to when i need to attend the her funeral. After knowing the news that she died due the breast cancer that spreading to her brain and lungs. She died after done 3 or 4 ampule of Chemo drugs. But, she did not made it. And it turns out that her cancer is really malignant and spread faster. Also it is rare type. Really rare in my country. Some family said that she already having tumor from teenager but never knowing that this tumor can be a malignant cancer. Thats why i am doubting about my country healthcare. Some of them misdiagnosed and i dont know my country healthcare is kinda not totality. It is just like it is what it is. Sick and die and never care about the patient. They only care about profit and money. Thats why many people that aware of health will prevent got sick than treating the sickness. And some people will going to Malaysia to get the health treatment since the rumor said that in Malaysia is having better treatment than in our country.

Okay back to Tuesday night. My wife cannot attend my friend funeral because she still at work. So, it is just me and my boy that represents to come. So, i am going with my old collagues using her car. For your information mostly my old collagues in my late office are my senior. And they are far older than me. Maybe they are kinda like my parents. Since their age is similar.

After we are arrived at funeral home, me and my boy just waiting the prayer activities and while waiting me and my boy took a selfie and make a report to my wife.

After prayer activities done, some people voluntarily gives testimony about my friend that died. Kinda heartbreaking hearing them. Fortunately my son did not know anything. What he knows is want to play with me and eating snacks.

This is the first evidence that my son took an ice cream. Look at happy and innocent face. Since in here he cannot playing phone since my phone does not have any games in it. He just eating many snacks from bread till yeah ice cream. After a while i am starting to mingle to my friend family, and of course i am talking to her husband and asking him how the chronology, it turns out that yeah she suffering from a very rare form of breast cancer. It's been 5 years that she battling with this cancer. And no one knows except her husband. She never asking any help or telling story about her suffering. I dont know she was shy or considered disgraceful or else. But what i heard about the information is true. Yeah i am kinda speechless, what can i do is just giving support from words only. Since yeah i am broken heart too why she leaving so soon. Even though i am not too close with her, but at least we are once fight together to eradicate corrupt employees. And yeah i decided to resign because company need scapegoat. And since i cannot endure the vibes on office at that time, i will resign and take all blame. Since i will not touching or having connection with this company at all.

After that as usual parents i introducing my son to all my old collagues and my friends there. And after that time to dinner. Truthfully i want to eat at home, but my son said that he is hungry. So, he started to eating noodles and it turns out that he cannot finish his meal. Thats why i eat the rest.

After eat noodles, my son grab another cup of ice cream. That quite much for my son. But, yeah hopefully he did not got sick since it is close to his birthday. After done eating desserts, finally we are going back home. After saying goodbye to her family, we decided to going back home since it is my son bedtime too.
In the end i really give my regards and deep condolances to my friend family and husband. And i dont want to share about her picture on her coffin. I think it is inappropriate. And it kinda privacy. And yeah i hope next day will get better news. Not sad news anymore. And see you in the next content.

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