Greetings, everyone!
I'm blessed this evening to share my thoughts on the effects of divorce on the partner and the children. I like marriage and I would like to be one of those who stand for marriage as the sweetest union. The effects of it come with trauma or dilemma. Some can be solved and some linkages can't be solved. The effects of marriage are mostly affected by the partner first and children; it could be the man or the woman, especially in Christianity, and children shattered around aimlessly without a shepherd.
So many wives are blessings to their husbands and for the husband to talk about divorce, he is already in danger. I knew this woman from my church. I got to realize that she is everything in the family. She is a prayer warrior, a businesswoman, and very active in anything she leads on her hands. One day, a quarrel occurred between both of them and the husband said something concerning divorce; the wife responded, 'The day I left your house, your people will kill you'. This was the wife's response. The husband had no choice but to change his status quo and leave rightly with the wife.
However, marriage is sweet with the right application and it needs God to humble the couples so that things can walk well. If the marriage is not working well, it will affect the children too and some children will not be able to cope with the whole situation. If the marriage is not healthy, everything in your house, business, and ministry will not be healthy too. Marriage is powerful and if divorce comes in, it scatters.
I do contemplate if a husband or wife can decide not to stay in the marriage again. And by my close investigation, I have seen it heard about such an anecdote. I would like to share the one saw with my eyes. I believe the husband just decided not to marry his wife again with three grown-up beautiful girls. The man who gave his wife a divorce letter didn't think twice, but it affected the wife because she was a devoted member of the church and a women's leader, and it affected her ministry, too. She slimmed down in the next few days. She kept on pleading with her husband not to disgrace her and her ministry, but he didn't give ears to his wife's pleading, instead, he ordered a bus to pack her luggage to her father's house. She cried all out for peace to reign in her husband's heart, there was no way. She became helpless, and her children became helpless, too. She had three female children. All of her children didn't have coverage during that time of problem between the father and the mother, the children were affected, no food, no shelter, no support from both parents, they were all scattered.
This is what the effect of divorce can do to the other partner and the children. At this point, the children will act and think otherwise because of what they have seen in both, and they can be distracted.
Overall, divorce will affect the partners and children.
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