Recalling the memories and Learnings about Ramadan

How gracious your Lord is in order to make make you love with Him. Each year all of Muslims are blessed with the Holy Month Ramadan. It's the time periods when your good deeds are multiplied and your wrong acts are in the minus phase. You are having the blessings, forgiveness from sins and clearance from hell throughout the month. No matter how cruel you remain still He gives another chance to you for retraction. Through prayers, fasting and distributing food and money among the needy you are getting more close to the pure Human version.

It's not hunger , it's the cut short from the materialistic demands.

Getting closer to Allah, your family and the Muslims community is the essence of Ramadan which transforms your ideology about life.

• The stronger and infinite Love ;

The ladies make inquiries about the joint and knee pain they obtain while getting old. Here opd doesn't mean crossing the limit of 50. It happens after the child birth, the main cause behind these bone related diseases are the kids. A fetus even absorbs the essential minerals from the bones of the mother when it's within the womb. And after entering the world how much a mother had to run for its growth and development. So in reality a woman starts getting old after childbirth. Somehow she loses the Garace and youth so that she must be valued and repeated as mother. Now imagine why heaven is placed under her feet. She tolerates the middle age crisis, aging and much more stuff for her kids.

Her love is solely pure. And think about the Lord who loves His man more than 70 mothers.

How He will push you into the closed tunnel of hardships. He does all this to examine and observe your patience and faith in Him. Only a few black hearts are not moved to Him. Otherwise forgiveness is granted to everyone.

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• Days spent in no worries ;

Within the short span of life our early Ramadan is spent as the month when we will do mischief throughout the day and no one wouldn't rebuke us. I remember when I was kid I used to hate breakfast as it was the same Sehri being prepared 4 hours ago and my mom refused to make the fresh food as its fragrance might annoy the other people having fast. And in the afternoon time when I saw the brown bread made 10 hours before literally I wanted to commit sucide. I enjoyed the time period when whole family was having fast and only I was there to taste the spice and sugar level of food. I did iftar twice. In the noon time everyone used to sleep and my loneliness escorted me to do funky stuff like discovering the hidden stuff from the store. I had urged my family to step-up TV for me in another room as I feel bored at noon time. And most miserable I feel when there was no drama or other entertaining stuff was broadcasted on PTV. I used to practice the ads being advertised by turning off the sound. ( the secret behind my acting and mimicry skills ROFL) .My family never asked me to do fasting in childhood all that happened was after puberty, why because my mom influenced me to do stuff with your own sense. When you have an idea of everything that you were related to. So till now my wish of 30 days of fasting hasn't been achieved.

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• The present Life ;

Now the scenario is different, responsibilities have made the shoulders heavier. From that helping girl to doing everything by myself. Now even the freshly made don't fascinate, no craze of applying Henna or buying bangles. I always keep the self love behind on each Eid. What matters for me now is to notice the happiness on the faces of kids who glide in the sky after receiving Eidi. I didn't receive the Eidi from everyone because my maternal family was away and brothers were on duties most of the time, there was no such trend of sending money. And what I liked most was receiving that hug or the pat on head from the elders. I was the one who ran for the complements as the best dressed up girl in the family. And now I await the praise as the best cook for making delicious food ( more specifically halwa as I make it with closed eyes now LOL) . From enjoying Taraweeh till crying in each dua I realized how life is harsh. I found no one who would take me away for playing games when the whole realm is offering Namaz Tasbeeh. Friends are not the same, they don't even tolerate that bad joke about the enclosure of satan.

From washing the stains on white clothes now washing the sins of black soul life has hilariously given a strong bolt.

It's not easy to protect your fast while in the past it was auto protected. From skipping the dua after each prayer now emphasizing more and more on this vital part. I can heartily announce that life is not the same….

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• Behind the scene;

Ramdan is the Holy month that is accompanied by Eid. It is specified by fasting from the sunrise till the sunset. Offering prayers, reciting Quran, distributing food, paying fitr( a specified amount paid to needy people ) offering Tarweeh ( where chapters of Quran are recited ) inviting others on Iftar, doing itikaf (staying away from public for ten days and only remaining in solitude in remembrance of Allah Almighty, staying away from forbidden stuff and staying closer to the orders of Allah Almighty each Muslim has been given a chance to learn good deeds, heaven along with forgiveness and blessing. So if you have any thoughts or memories of yourself or any friend do share in the comment section and it's been requested not to indulge yourself in religious hate speech .

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