Guardians of Love: Understanding the Nature of Protection in Relationships

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Well, if any of us can understand a little or are capable of thinking, we love the people or things around us and are also ready to do anything to save them. You must have seen animals around you, mostly dogs or cats, they are very easily seen pets or you can say they are stray animals. You must have seen how protective they are towards their children and even rush to bite others to save them. This is just a small example of how often they risk their lives to protect their loved ones. Similar is the nature of a person who goes to any extent to save the one he loves. We have often seen in movies how a hero goes through a lot of risks to save his heroine. Reaches there. And similar is the relationship between parents and children; parents are ready to go to any extent for the happiness of their children.


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Even though they have to make their sacrifices for the child's happiness, they do not care about it. They only see the happiness of their children and for this, they are ready to do anything. Yes, not every parent does this but most of the parents are like this and are ready to do anything for the happiness of their children. And they just want to keep them happy and safe. Neither am I married nor do I have any children. But still, we get attached to the people around us, especially to our family. Yes, this is done with everyone. It is not so much. There would hardly be any person who likes everyone in his house. Such a surprise. It is not a normal thing, but still, we are better with some people and not so good with some people.

All these are natural things, someone chants them, they cannot be imposed on you, and everyone has their own nature. But if you love someone, you are ready to do a lot to protect them, sometimes circumstances make us much stronger. And we end up doing something that we would like to do. I believe that I have a very good relationship with my younger brother, I don't know why I try to fulfil his every wish and because of this, my father remains angry with me and often tells me that I have spoiled it. I have a simple idea that we get only one life to live and you are the master of your life, live it the way you want, and do whatever you want because people will always say something or the other no matter what you say.

I tell him yes to everything but when I feel that something is not right for him, I try to explain it to him and give him the information and the good thing is that he listens to me too. It feels good that there is not much difference between us in our age. There is not that much difference between me, the difference is only about 5-6 years, but still, he is much smarter than me and I am very happy about it I also take advantage of his thinking many times and get him to do a lot of my work.

Talking about protection, I might have protected him many times from my own family because sometimes the circumstances are not favourable for us and I try to protect him all the time and maybe it is a good thing that my parents trust me. And I try my best not to break their trust and hope that the same trend continues. Nowadays the young generation has become very spendthrift, my younger brother has also started working but still, within a week or two of the month all his money disappears and he keeps asking me for money.

I refuse at first but even though I don't want to, I have to give him the money but the good thing is that he returns the money to me before the beginning of the month, maybe that is why I don't hesitate to give him the money. I don't know why, whatever the reason, I always feel worried about him. I don't know why, maybe being an elder brother, this happens or marriage becomes a companion of everyone with age. Does this happen to you too? Do you treat younger siblings like children or like friends?

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I get so many issues in real life protecting my toddler children because the people who might be strangers usually go on to press the cheek areas of my children and I always tell them to stop doing this act and sometimes get violent with these strangers as well to protect my children now I know these might not be child abusers but I always tell people to have a boundary when it comes to my children really.

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Haha you are spoiling your Bro, your father said 😂 but I can relate with that, we just feel that we can't give enough to our younger ones.

I have younger siblings that I always feel happy when they are happy and so I try to do whatever I can for them.

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He hee we all are same , in many ways I guess. This is real love I guess. Thanks for stopping by and sharing your thoughts ☺️

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It's as it should be, but I have seen many cases where families or parents act as if they don't care about their relatives.
I don't think we should get to the point of overprotecting or pleasing people in everything. But you must be present in solidarity, as a family should be.
It's the way I consider it, it may be right or not, it's just my little point of view.
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Thanks for stopping by and sharing your thoughts sir. Agree with you. We have to stand out for our loved ones a lot in a way to protect them. This is life. Have a great day and week 💐🙏🤗

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Parents are always protective for their child and they even hesitate to sacrifice except some exceptional case.
Bro what should I say? How so many similarities we have? I also protect to my little brother most of the time. My parents also say me that I am spoiling him. I have written about it already. Is it a coincidence 🤔? Or both of us are carbon copy 😅?!LOL
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Ha haa you are right brother, but now parenting has become tough. Ha haa who knows I think we do have a lots of similarities 😁. What a coincidence.

Thanks for stopping by and sharing your thoughts have a great weekend brother.
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Indeed we have many similarities and I noticed in many times in the past also.

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Yes this is the speciality of animals thay they protect their loved ones. Even thoguh they had to harm the one that is infront of them. Same as our parents are our super protective layer. Love them

Protecting our loved ones, especially here in India is understood. But overprotection is not so good I believe, because it is kind of pampering and spoiling them. Which means, they will always rely on us for every small things .