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Living in Netherlands for the past year only amplified my tendencies not to apologise first. The culture there is known for being direct and confrontational cause all the foreigners which was very different from what I was used to back home. As a result, I found myself getting involved in more drama than ever before. Whether it was with friends, colleagues, or even strangers on the street, I always felt like conflicts were just waiting around every corner. Different nationalities, different mentalities.
Receiving an apology is a powerful and essential part of resolving any conflicts. This way both parties involved are admitting their mistakes, take responsibility for their actions, and move towards forgiveness and resolution.
The importance of apologizing lies in its ability to repair damaged relationships and restore trust. When someone receives an apology, it shows that the person who caused harm recognizes the impact of their actions and takes responsibility for them. This can bring a sense of closure to the hurt party and create an opportunity for healing.
And you are also addressing the needs or expectations that started the conflict in the first place. By acknowledging these underlying issues, both parties can gain a better understanding of each other's perspectives and work towards finding a solution that meets everyone's needs.
By doing all of this allows us to let go of negative emotions such as anger, resentment, and bitterness. When we hold onto grudges and refuse to forgive without receiving an apology, it only leads to further conflict and damage to our well-being but if we are open to accepting apologies, we can find emotional release and move on from what has hurt us.
But the apology is not just about saying the words "I'm sorry". Everyone can fake apology but the genuine remorse for our actions and sincerity makes this sentence powerful. A real heartfelt apology can do wonders in restoring trust between people but only if both sides accept it and it shows that we are actually valuing the person in front of us.
The lack of apology from one specific part was one of the major factors in my decision to leave. I left without receiving an apology from the girl that I was with and I thought she was a good friend, who had caused me harm. But later, I found out that another person had apologized to her on my behalf. This created confusion and left me wondering if I should still apologize or let it go.
I started wondering did he do it with good intentions and did she admit her mistake and said sorry but not to me. Maybe I don't need to apologize myself.
But if her apology was insincere or was meant to cover up her own wrongdoing in front of him than I prefer to hear the apology directly. I toke a step back and reflect on how my own actions have affected others. Even though someone else has already apologized on my behalf, I must not underestimate the power of apologizing on my own.
Sometimes, the person you hurt may need to hear a direct apology from you to truly feel validated and heard. Even if you are not guilty. It also shows that you take responsibility for your own actions and are sincerely remorseful.
Consider the nature of your relationship with the person who was harmed. If they are a close friend or family member, it may be best to apologize personally, even if someone else has already done so on your behalf. Your relationship with them is valuable, and apologizing yourself can help repair any damage caused.
But, if your relationship with them is not as significant or has already ended, it may not be necessary to apologize personally and just continue with you life. Now this sometimes is a bad decision. I decided to apologize personally... more or less... video clip on WhatsApp. I toke responsibility for my own action like she did for hers even if not directly
You can say something like "I am sorry for my part in this matter,", "I regret my actions and apologize for any harm I caused." or something like than but always be sincere.
Apologizing is a crucial step towards reconciliation, but it is equally essential to learn from our mistakes and make a conscious effort not to repeat them. Moving forward with positive actions can show that your apology was genuine and that you are committed to improving yourself.
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I believe you, apology is not about saying the words. One have to be remorseful, ready to take responsibility and genuine sincerity.
Indeed true apologies go beyond words it's all about sincerity.
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Apology is very powerful too and cannot be underestimated in any relationship. It has the power to heal and soothe. I would apologize directly whenever I know that I'm wrong. It takes nothing from a person but it makes everything okay.
Yes, but sometimes it depends on the situation. Each coin has two sides. Sometimes you need to apologise to yourself as well.
Oh yes. Apologise and forgive yourself.
I share the same opinion about apologies and I think it's not just about the apology. Instead, what usually gives closure is a clear understanding that the offender knows what he or she did wrong and the person is ready to make sure that the action wouldn't repeat itself.
A real heartfelt apology is the best approach to take if a situation calls for apology
Yes, for example, I had a friend who constantly apologized but repeatedly engaged in the same behavior. I might have been a bit harsh, but I made it clear that until he learns from his actions, he shouldn't contact me. 😅
Apology-"I'm sorry" is actually powerful and the person has to be genuinely remorseful, also, the recipient has to be open and willing to receive the apology for total reconciliation to take place.
Making peace is good but you need to let the person know what wrong he or she has done because that is how the person can learn and become better. Also, if it is someone who always finds it difficult to say "I'm sorry or I apologize for"... then it will be good if you tell the person the importance of apologizing so that he or she can learn and implement it.
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It's a two-way street, though. The person accepting the apology needs to be in "forgiving" mode. I know a few scorpions that are never in this mode 😅🤣😂
You're right.
Hahaha... Scorpions! I can imagine.
Have a wonderful weekend.
Cheers 🥂
A heartfelt apology always performs miracles to the heart. Someone who is genuine with their words will respect you and seek reconciliation.
...and you are right. Every country or place with the way they act. That's one crazy aspect of life.
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