A Lesson in Sacrifice: Letting Go of Inheritance for Love

in Hive Learners16 days ago

Image by Petra from Pixabay

In life we get inspired from other people actions a lot no matter how much we try to not copy someone else we end up doing what most people do.


it's like someone simple yet honest action can inspire you a lot in the life, I believe we should be in company of such people who inspire us to do better in the society we live.

It's easy to say we should be kind and all that act of kindness on internet is more like some words but I remember this one actual story that I witnessed and changed my perspective the way I used to see things.


The Last Few Days In a Relative Home

I remember that one time when I was at my close relative home and uncle was sick those days his eldest son was working in foreign country and came back to see him and be with him.

Image by Gisela Merkuur from Pixabay

When he returned and meet everyone it changed the perception about him made by the other people in the family.

That was a good person, he spent most of time away from family just to provide them and when his father got sick he was also taking care of those bills and all that.

Sadly his father passed away and that was some hard time in everyone's life..after a long time, I got a call from him he wanted to tell something.

When it's time to divide

Just like every family a father's wealth and properties later be divided into all members equally or the way owner says as the last words.

Now he told me that he ain't getting anything like the other brothers already took all the authority on his father property and not giving anything to him.

Image by Gerd Altmann from Pixabay

He told me the way he spend all his life away from family and supporting them in good and hard times, now getting deceived like that is tearing apart.

They think he made generational wealth in the foreign country as mostly in my country assume those who work in other countries make fortune.

Anyway it was his right to get equal share as other sons but somehow they did dirty to him and now what he says literally changed my perspective about people.

He said I literally don't want any of that property or land acquisition by going to lawyers and making my family come to court, I had this bond with father and loved him, I spent most of my life away for them to see them living happily and if this makes these people happy by taking my right, who I'm to complain.

Literally forgave everyone even though he did nothing wrong and it was more than the act of kindness, like for people we love especially family.. we can literally giveaway everything just to see them happy.

From that day till now

In life I've learnt that after certain thing happens, we don't feel the same way about people but when those people are like blood relation we find excuse or ways to be close to them and fix things with each other.

It's a big thing that you're sacrificing something that belong to you for the brother just to see him in the better spot despite of the way they treat and all it doesn't matter as long as it gives them the satisfaction.

It was ridiculous naming properties without even telling him but the way he turned around that situation.. I personally respect him a lot now and so everyone else in the family.

fin.

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 16 days ago  

He is a very good hearted man, if it was someone, he wouldn't have let things go just like that. That just proved that he took this life as nothing, he knows that life is just vanity upon vanity, there is no point in fighting our siblings for what will not even endure forever. Your story is quite touching and I have learned so much from it

 15 days ago  

True, I personally have learned much from the guy!

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 16 days ago  

Your cousin really wanted peace by letting go of the properties. Not everybody will do so. Have heard about how two siblings killed their selves because of their late dad's property.

He indeed has a heart of gold preaching peace and am glad it also shaped you also.

 15 days ago  

Indeed, it's just sad that people can go that far for the temporary wealth in this world...

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 16 days ago  

I can fully understand the situation you described because I have seen that situation many times. In fact, it's happening almost in every house. Specially elder brother is suffering although the contribution of the elder brother is huge in family and sacrificed a lot. The betrayal from the blood related brothers was the most painful thing for anyone.
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 15 days ago  

Man, it's sad how these things can Happen... It's indeed painful, can't imagine such thing happening to anyone

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I'll say that's what true kindness is all about, you let others have it their way even though it is wrong way for peace to prosper. People can assume a lot of things about us based on appearances but the reality is always quite different.