Integration of kindness

Humans are known as the best creatures in this world. Because of their intelligence and behavior, humans become unique or isolated from other creatures. Humanity is the thing which is the specialty of humans. And kindness is a form of humanity.

Indeed, all humans are unique and different from each other, but some human personality, character, or a special trait can influence others. In that case, most of us want to be like them or gain their personalities or specific traits. In my case, I used to treat myself differently from others, and in most cases, I never wanted to be like anyone else and make a little change in myself. Instead of it, some of my close friends made me influenced in some cases, and it was good for me based on my current opinion. And today I am going to share about one.

I have a friend, and his name is Alauddin (a fake name). He also comes from a middle-class family like mine. In fact, his financial condition was not so good as mine. His lifestyle is quite simple, and he is friendly to everyone. Once I needed money, I planned to visit my aunt's house to take some money from her. It was the thing I used to do when I needed money. On that day, I decided to go, and for some reason, the topic came up in the conversation on mobile. Hearing about it, he directly offered to lend me the money, which I can return to him whenever I want. But I am the one who wasn't ready to take any kind of financial help from any friends, as I try to keep financial things aside from friendship. But he forcefully gave me the money. After a week, I returned the money to him, as it was also my responsibility. That thing makes me a little bit curious because no one usually forces anyone in financial matters.

Later, with time, I realized that he is the one who is always ready to help others, and he doesn't hesitate to help others even if he suffers loss for it. Many times he borrowed money from others to help others. If someone calls him and says that they are in trouble, he immediately becomes ready to help them at any cost. It is kind of madness, and I always try to give him suggestions not to act rashly. One's good personality can also be their weakness, and in the case of my friend, the same thing happened. His goodness became his weakness. Many so called friends have taken advantage of him and run away after taking money. I restrict him most of the time from doing this, but I appreciate him for having a kind heart.

I have seen it many times that his little contribution helped some people greatly. Some people genuinely love him, and those are now his well-wishers. Blessings can be considered achievements. I also wanted to help others since childhood, but I wasn't wealthy enough to do so. His actions made me realize that to help others, I don't need huge money, I just need a beautiful and kind heart. Since that time, I have tried to help others based on my capacity. But in my case, I mostly try to donate to orphanages. In the case of helping others by lending them money, I give money to them after proper verification and having enough faith in them, but I am not ready to help others by giving money if that money has a significant impact on my personal life. I don't think facing negative consequences for helping others is good, and it's kind of an injustice to me and to my family members.

I know my friend has done good things, but some people take it as his foolishness or weakness. In my case, I am not doing exactly the same thing as my friend, but my kind mind and good work are the result of the influence of his good heart.