I like the picture about the shege you've seen. I know this post isn't supposed to be funny but the picture just does it for me.
Suffice to say that it's impossible to talk about Nigeria without having a headache or being plunged into a really dark mood. Nevertheless, I hope you find things that could bring you happiness even if it's a modicum because losing your head over all these stress isn't profitable in the least.
That being said, do stay strong.