The visit to your cousin was a great one indeed. Your cousin’s talk with you burst your reality bubble but most importantly it set you on a path for greatness. Her talk with you was clearly a life changer.

The best part @burlarj is that her words did not fall in deaf ears- you took action. A lot of people want change but do nothing for it.
It is also good that you are now living more comfortably inna place that will foster you dreams and goals.