For Love, Things I Can Do And Can't Do

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For week4 edition 2 we have been asked to write things we can do for love. This is a very nice and interesting topic for everyone because we must have fallen in love in one way or the other.

For Love
At one time or the other, we all have been in love. Many of us are even in love now. So tell us all those things you can do for love, how far you are wiling to go. And then the things you will never do. We would love to know.

Being in love is a beautiful thing especially when you're with the right person. How do you know he's the right person for you?

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Many ladies ask this question but most chooses to be blinded by love, most people think that when a man showers them love by giving them money all the time is love, some thinks that love is all about sex, but one thing we fail to understand is that love is more than that. You need to look deep into your relationship and ask yourself if what you want from a man is just sex, money and party.

Though money is good in every relationship, but one thing you must have in a relationship is trust and understanding. When you both understands each other, you may not need to argue nor fight. When I mean fight, it's not the physical exchange of blow or anything but just argument. I believe anything that will make a guy to beat up his girlfriend means he doesn't like her but just want to use her that period.

Like I said earlier, falling in love with the right person means finding happiness beyond and you know how you feel when you're happy 😊, I don't need to explain further. To some limit, there are things I can do for love and things I can't do.

My love story is kind of different because when I love you there are things I don't like to show but things I can do for love is quite much. I believe for me to fall in love with you, we must have understood each other very well and we must have told each other the things we like and things we don't like. Once there's an understanding between the both of us then all is well.

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To me, I can go extra miles to make my partner happy. If in anyway I'm in the position to help him, meaning helping him in the money aspect, I'm willing to empty my account just to make sure we're comfortable. There is no law that says only a guy should be the one to give a girl money, it has to be vice versa. Me going extra miles means I can do anything just to make the relationship last.

I'm willing to spend quality time with my partner anytime anywhere as long we are very happy together. I believe the more time we spend together, the more we get to know each other. You can't know someone by just talking to the person on phone all the time, you need to have sometime alone to figure out what you need to strengthen the relationship.

In as much as I love staying around you and thinking I can't live without you. There are some certain things I won't tolerate in relationships:

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• Abuse

I can't stay with an abusive guy, as a guy you must learn how to control your temper so you don't have to pour it out on your girlfriend. Imagine you abuse me while we're dating, what will happen when we're married? I don't even what to think about that.

It baffles me how most girls bear with boys that abuses them, they claim he love me and with time he will change. A beast will always be a beast and nothing can change him. The very first day you raise your hands to hit me will be the end of the relationship.

• Breach Of Trust

Like I said earlier that before you can be in a relationship, the partners needs to trust each other and that is the only thing that can make a relationship last. In a situation where I get to notice that my partner is beginning to have doubt in me will be the beginning of an ending relationship. I don't like when people mistrust me, and we all know what lack of trust do to people.

There are still Many of them that I can't take in a relationship such as external forces. Constantly Forcing me to do things I don't want to do or maybe a smoker. You might pretend to me at the beginning of the relationship that you're not a smoker, but once I get to find out that you're, that will be the end.

It's really difficult to satisfy someone, but in all we do, we need to try our best.

Thanks for reading