Every human has different choices for living on this planet, sometimes one matches with the other one, sometimes it doesn't but there are some fundamental things which every guy has the same and respect is one of the most fundamental things that you and I love to get from others, Isn't it? I feel it is the most precious, although it is so precious, it is priceless & one can be respected without having zero assets or one can be disrespected having a huge stack of assets.
Now, the question is why is someone honored or dishonored? Well, before putting the answer here let me clarify first why I chose this kinda topic tonight. A couple of hours earlier I have witnessed something which I did not expect from a guy. Well, let me put the answer now then I will move on. You'll be honored & dishonored, mostly depending on your behavior which you place in front of others while dealing with them. You need to know in a microscopical way when, where & how you should act. Well, that's the way impressions create and you read the other guy while having a conversation.
I was acquainted with a guy about two years ago, the guy was near to perfect If you ignore the life of his relationship. His age is between 55 to 60 If I assume correctly. I hardly ever detect a guy like him, he basically loves to remain neat & clean look always. He has a very deep observation about himself that his thoughts & opinions are appropriate which is a very wrong thought in my opinion.
Whenever we had a conversation with the other guys, everyone put their thoughts & opinion in their eyes, and every time he took an adverse side. Though others could agree on a specific thought, he would not do the same decision on the specific point. No matter how much you work hard to persuade him, he hardly ever be replaced by his decision, as if he wanna win every conversation in his way, though it has no value in my eyes.
We all are quite habituated to this kind of attitude, thus these days it does not make so much discomfort while communicating. But last night something happened strange. A couple of days ago I went on a family trip where my cousins were included too. While having in train coincidentally he was going to the capital having in the same train. Last night when we met for the first time after the trip, he asked me about one of my cousins who's studying just in class 10.
He was just causally telling me to make something for him as he felt good while seeing her. How strange his thoughts are! How one could ever think like that, I have no idea at all, I remained silent for a while as I did not find a proper word for replying. Once when I replied his mode went off and he did not feel comfy to continue the conversation and immediately he just left the place.
When I lose respect for any person In my eyes, it's a pretty tough task for me to get back the same respect while seeing the guy. I had a tremendous respect for him but I do not feel much good about him when I remember the conversations. Well, how someone could think like that, doesn't it mean that he owns a very cheap mentality?