Unsplash
What would be our biggest problem currently? It’s difficult to generalize something so personal, isn’t it? Although research with significant data can be done to group and show in a broader way what a group of people, a certain age group, a part of a city, state or country face more frequently, the question that, what is the Your or my problem is something that, in practice, is determined by the individualities we experience.
Sharing my biggest problem currently, I can say that it is one of the most common and frequent possible: money! It may seem silly, after all, in the capitalist world we live in, having resources to live or survive are essential, whether you are a person who lives with your parents, alone or has a family like I do, made up of my wife and two children, money always It will be a big problem to be faced by everyone, in any corner of the world, I imagine.
Ok, anyone who follows me here at Hive and reads my posts, knows that you see or share how complicated and difficult one of my days was or then some disagreement with my wife and I could say that living with her would be my biggest problem, the biggest difficulty I have in being able to say “that I am happy”, but, it is not. Whenever we have a difference of ideas, it can take a while or even on the same day, we manage to sit down and talk and resolve everything between us, but, in the last few days, I discovered something interesting.
Unsplash
I was skeptical that money and love don't mix like water and oil, but in the last conversation with my wife (which happened on Sunday and this was even the subject of my post on Monday) I was able to better understand what the biggest reason for our fights was. It's just him: guess what! MONEY! Exactly, she opened my eyes to this, because what happens, most of the household bills are paid by me, but, as the years go by, the debts get bigger, whether due to taxes, the general amount things that are always increasing or the wonderful government policy we have and the salary I receive remains the same, in other words, we are in a difficult phase financially.
As she works abroad, she owns a salon and I'm always repeating this, she works as a manicurist, pedicure and nail designer, so, in a way, she helps at home, but in my opinion it's still not enough, so I'm always asking if she can help me with something and then the disagreements begin, because her salon also has expenses and as I'm not there, I don't participate in everything, I don't know what her financial situation is like with her place of work. That's why I'm always asking for financial help to pay the bills and she's always telling me that they don't have any money and so we end up in this cycle.
This way, we started some arguments and fights and now I understand more clearly how the financial situation of a couple can hurt the love between them, it seems like something from a movie, but it's not, it's a serious problem that needs to be resolved somehow. I can say that money is my biggest problem currently, so, thanks to God and a lot of hard work, I don't have any other serious problems, I have an apartment, a car, a steady job, my family and I have health, love and affection for each other, so the only thing that has really saddened me is this tightness in terms of resources to pay bills and live well.
UnsplashMy relationship with my mother is good, with my family and my wife's family is also very calm, so that's it, I believe that if I could get a salary increase or if my wife could make her salon take off even more, with much more capital coming in, she could help me more with the bills at home and this would avoid strain between us. In addition to the third option, which is to have a good income on Hive, after all, here is a way to create a second income or have passive income that can help me.
I've already shared a few times, how the money I got from Hive helped me shop at the market or pay my credit card bill, so this is what motivates me to continue here even more, believing that anything is possible. I'm sure that one day, my problem will not be money, that I will be able to increase my source of income and this will just be a memory of a bad phase.
Unsplash
Qual seria o nosso maior problema atualmente? Difícil generalizar algo tão pessoal não é? Apesar de que pesquisas com dados significativos possam ser feitas para agrupar e mostrar de uma forma mais ampla o que um grupo de pessoas, determinada faixa etária, uma parte de cidade, estado ou país enfrentam com maior frequência, a questão de que, qual o seu ou o meu problema é algo que, na prática, é determinado por individualidades que vivemos.
Compartilhando o meu maior problema atualmente, posso dizer que ele é um dos mais comuns e frequentes possíveis: dinheiro! Pode parecer besteira, afinal no mundo capitalista em que vivemos, ter recursos para viver ou sobreviver são essenciais, seja você uma pessoa que mora com seus pais, sozinho ou que têm uma família como tenho, composta por minha esposa e dois filhos, dinheiro sempre será um grande problema a ser enfrentado por todos, em qualquer canto do mundo, assim eu imagino.
Ok, quem me segue aqui na Hive e lê minhas postagens, sabe que vês ou outra compartilho como um dia meu foi complicado e difícil ou então algum desentendimento com a minha esposa e poderia dizer que essa convivência com ela seria o meu maior problema, a maior dificuldade que tenho para poder dizer “que eu sou feliz”, mas, não é. Sempre que temos uma divergência de ideias, pode demorar ou ser até no mesmo dia, conseguimos sentar e conversar e resolver tudo entre nós, mas, nos últimos dias, descobri algo interessante.
Unsplash
Estava cético que dinheiro e amor não se misturam, como água e óleo, mas, na última conversa com a minha esposa (que aconteceu no domingo e isso foi até assunto para minha postagem de segunda) pude entender melhor que o maior motivo de nossas brigas é justamente ele: adivinhem! DINHEIRO! Exatamente, ela me abriu os olhos para isso, porque o que acontece, a maioria das contas de casa sou eu que pago, mas, a medida que os anos passam, os débitos vão ficando maiores, seja por conta de impostos, o valor geral das coisas que vai sempre aumentando ou a politica maravilhosa do governo que temos e o que recebo de salário continua o mesmo, ou seja, estamos em uma fase de aperto financeiramente.
Como ela trabalha fora, ela é dona de um salão e estou sempre repetindo isso, ela trabalha como manicure, pedicure e Nail Design, então, ela de certa forma ajuda em casa, mas na minha opinião ainda é pouco, sendo assim, estou sempre perguntando se ela pode me ajudar em algo e aí começa nos desentendimentos, porque o salão dela também têm despesas e como eu não estou lá, não participo de tudo, não sei como é a situação financeira dela com o seu lugar de trabalho. Por isso, estou sempre pedindo ajuda financeira para poder pagas as contas e ela sempre me dizendo que não têm dinheiro e assim ficamos neste ciclo.
Dessa forma, começamos algumas discussões e brigas e agora percebo mais claramente, como a situação financeira de um casal pode machucar o amor entre eles, parece coisa de filme, mas não é, é um problema serio que precisa ser resolvido de alguma forma. Posso dizer que o dinheiro é o meu maior problema atualmente, por isso, graças a Deus e muito trabalho duro, eu não tenho nenhum outro problema grave, possuo um apartamento, um carro, trabalho fixo, eu e minha família temos saúde, amor e carinho mutuamente, então a única coisa que tem me entristecido mesmo, é esse aperto em relação a recursos para pagar contas e viver bem.
UnsplashA minha relação com a minha mãe é boa, com a minha família e a família da minha esposa também é bem tranquila, então é isso, acredito que se conseguisse um aumento de salário ou se a minha esposa conseguisse fazer o salão dela decolar mais ainda, entrando muito mais capital, ela poderia me ajudar mais com as contas em casa e isso evitaria desgastes entre nós. Além da terceira opção, o qual é ter um bom rendimento na Hive, afinal, aqui é uma forma de criar uma segunda renda ou ter rendimentos passivos que podem me ajudar.
Já compartilhei algumas vezes, como o dinheiro que consegui da Hive, me ajudou a fazer compras no mercado ou a pagar a fatura do meu cartão de crédito, então, isso é o que me motiva a continuar mais ainda aqui, acreditando que tudo é possível. Tenho certeza que um dia, meu problema não será o dinheiro, que conseguirei aumentar a minha fonte de renda e isso será apenas uma lembrança de uma fase ruim.
🔹Hive Games: Splinterlands | dCrops | Terracore | Holozing🔹
🔹Play and Mine Crypto: Rollercoin | Follow me on X🔹
Posted Using InLeo Alpha
Rapaz eu is escrever algo parecido… acabei apagando pq sabia q vc is nesse topico kkkk !PIZZA
kkkkkk estou tão previsível assim? haha, mas é isso mesmo, o problema financeiro é um dos mais comuns, ainda mais aqui no Brasil =/
$PIZZA slices delivered:
@gwajnberg(1/20) tipped @shiftrox
Congratulations @shiftrox! You have completed the following achievement on the Hive blockchain And have been rewarded with New badge(s)
Your next payout target is 13000 HP.
The unit is Hive Power equivalent because post and comment rewards can be split into HP and HBD
You can view your badges on your board and compare yourself to others in the Ranking
If you no longer want to receive notifications, reply to this comment with the word
STOPTo support your work, I also upvoted your post!
Financial constraints is literally everyone's problem. No average man has enough and things keeps rising making it hard for people to live a balanced life.
That's same it is in my country, things are rising on daily basis but salary rains the same making it difficult for everyone. I'm glad Hive is a blessing.
That's exactly it, it's complicated because everything goes up in price but our source of income remains the same, for years and so on, and then there comes a time when what we earn isn't enough. It's very difficult and it also complicates people's lives, like boyfriends or married couples, for example.
It takes a lot of talking and well-defined points between the two.
Financial crisis is something that happens and is more common among people. Most times we get to make decision for our money but then the economy isn’t helping as things goes high in price and then we lack money
Here in Brazil our biggest problem is the government and its taxes and interest rates. We can say that the price of things tends to rise very quickly, but wages stay the same - that's the problem. The source of debt accelerates much more than the source of credit or income, so you have to work harder or stop living and buying good things.
Wow the government most times is the major cause. I hope you all stay safe
Money is one of those evil creations of mankind, that is necessary to survive in this world. It really is the source of most fights in marriages world wide I would be willing to bet. The earning here on Hive are significant, I'm glad they have helped you out!
!DHEDGE
There's a song by a Brazilian singer here that I like that says "I hate money, but I hate the lack of it even more" and unfortunately that's it, money often ends dreams or can help make them come true, it's the power they have. I don't like to fight or have problems with my wife over money, but there are moments when it's complicated, so there's a lot of talking to do and being calm at those times.
Obrigado por promover a comunidade Hive-BR em suas postagens.
Vamos seguir fortalecendo a Hive
my most commom problem too
kkk I think that of all of us unfortunately 😅
I've been writing about a United States Monetary Correction back to "Circulating" Silver and Gold Coins that will range from $2 to $100... Guess what we'll be using to make change...??? If there's any way for you to get your hands on a little of our Common U.S. Coinage, I figure it will need to increase 100 Fold, in order to make change... I have many Blogs on the Topic, if you're interested in getting our of Debt and perhaps even becoming Rich...
Thank you... we need to be calm at these times to find a solution that will help us financially! 😀