The time when it is felt as seclusion harming our own growth of life, thats when change is needed. At some point a certain scenario comes up that what we cherish, we do most of our work to get there. It happens by default choice.
I remember back a few years ago I start to lose rhythm of life in one spring season. Being alone and no special person in life, not having the tendency to come out of it and the civic life that really sucks. A feeling that everybody is beside, but not a single person to be befriended.
Looking at the time of youth, when life's most important time comes up, the time for preparation to build the future. Once it is built, there comes the responsibility to carry it on. When a person is handed little responsibility, it begets more responsibility and soon creating a vacuum that nobody wants.
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I felt as I missed some point where to enjoy life and the time of spring when the nature is shaped in a beautiful way. Having the freedom to choose anything and travelling to any places that would uplift mood and provide a chance to be jolly, putting aside gloominess and depression.
I thought of it also and with it raised a plan to pursue it to the full level. A good future would be built somehow, but it is no point to just get into it and not looking here and there. Life isnt just destined to chase whatever it takes, career, jobs, opportunities grabbing one by one and certainly claiming one and losing most of others.
If merriment is missed and when life is just made to live once, there comes the responsibility in own shoulder to grab it and fill with a positive hope. Some times for being focused at own responsibility and then deciding what to build for the future, the rest for enjoying nature, life and hopes for the future.
Life would give to a person many experiences, something sweet and something better. It is as if, bitter experience come to teach us a good lesson. Some insults by strange people and then forgiving them for misconducts make us great. I have had all these practically.
But still it gave meaning to life and we as a people should have the meaning to carry forward. Being alone is a solution for a short time and even to be rich and live in abundance, choice is to be made whether to be alone I would rather give it up and live a vivid life.
Because meaning is there, to live fullest with energy,jolliness and being happy with little things. That make us to go ahead and win in most situations.
All the best to my readers reading out this write. I wish the same to you.