Ah this scenery looks so peaceful, what a great walk, I'm jealous wish I could join lol
I agree with you on so many points, I think that we like to box ourselves in and we are scared of the unknown and taking risks so we self-sabotage and ensure we keep people around who help us maintain the illusion of these restrictions so we don't have to face the real fear of failure. We would rather accept mediocrity than risk failure for some reason, which I don't see the big problem is I fail all the time but I keep going.
I think that the 4 points of toxic people all bring an element of bias into your world and you can easily distort your perceptions based on these peoples ideologies. Which is why we need to learn to be self-aware and think for yourselves, evaluate people and situations from multiple viewpoints and that's how you grow as a person.
We seem to be pretty kindred spirits you and I
It is a very lovely park, it has around 18,7 hectars in total, full of trees and you can go biking around in some areas. Definetely a place to find peace and calm. It is called Parcul Dendrologic Alba Iulia, google it and see some pics. It is awesome.
I am glad we think alike, here on Hive I came across very smart people. And it brings me joy and makes me want to keep doing my thing.
Getting rid of toxic people or learning to cope with them in case you can't get rid is a must get skill in today's world. I think that people fail to think long term, hoping for the bad partner to change someday. Wrong. I was told to myself:maybe I am not wise enough all the time to cut a bad dude out of my life, but with imagination exercise,I can defintely be wise enough to cut a bad dude for my future imaginary kids. Maybe it sounds hilarious, but it works😂 people always want the best for offsprings. So making a choice for a partner includes this too. So yup, whatever helps cutting bad apples... Use it.
Ah that's huge, more than enough to get lost in and explore sounds like fun, I love to bike! I googled it now, looks awesome and people give a lot of positive reviews. I know zero about Romania lol will need to brush up on my knowledge of the country
Exactly each person you meet is like a branch in your life tree and some need to be cut for you to grow! I think you have the right mindset and I'm sure it will lead you into all sorts of interesting opportunities
Thank you, loved the tree metaphor😊