Have you ever ask to apple tree to give you mango.. Do you said to moon why you don't give light like sun??
Don't compare your child with others child there is no comparison between sun and moon. They shine when its their time.
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When we compare our child with others child, we increase their anxiety and stress. And also develop jelousy in them..
They feel every one is better than they are.
"Comparison is theif of joy".
Stop comparing your child
Don't said Ali helps her mother but you don't, or he is good in studies why not you.
Instead ask him can you please help me, as i saw you keep your toys clean and place it on right place.
Use positive statements.
Be their role model
Actions speak louder then words
Develop positive behavior in your self, do healthy activities,, your child will follow you. Set examples for your child, show some positive behaviour.
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STOPI came by to tell you your source link doesn’t work I would change it is my advice
No idea why my image link doesn't work. Anyway thanks for telling me.
No your image link is not correct it’s not working so you are not sourcing
This is one of the most dangerous things - to compare children!
They always feel that standard being held and feeling like they can never quite measure up to the sibling. It causes such distance between the children!
I love what you said - loved the examples you gave - and loved how you gave simple instruction on how to correct this :)
nicely done!!! :)
Thanks for your appreciation, you always motivated us and guide us.thanks for stopping by.
Hello, friend @gohar-ali
Interesting article that you write today.
It is very common for parents to compare their children with other children as a strategy for them to do things they do not want.
This is a big mistake.
I remember that in my childhood, I ate little and all the adults in my family came up with the great idea of always comparing me to chubby girls who were this beautiful because they ate a lot.
As a result, I had frustrating adolescence, as I was fat and felt ugly compared to the others.
Overcoming these childhood traumas requires a long and painful process.
Better, it would be to stop comparing children and accept that they are all beautiful, although each one is different.
A hug
Right we all suffer this type of comparison, fat or thin, or dull skin color. this comparison steals the joy of childhood. i don't want to go to family gatherings.
Adults should avoid this practice.