Honestly, I agree. But, I can't really speak for it. I stopped watching these awards many years ago. I only know one winner and it's because of this slap.
I remember when Regina Hall mocked LeBron James's hairline, and that was straight-up mockery and not like what Chris Rock did which was essentially a compliment. No one cared.
I also remember a video of Gaga interacting with Lisa on stage which was beautiful.
Thank you for sharing your take.