Forgiving our parents/Perdonar a nuestros padres

The day I forgave the people who hurt me so much and freed myself completely from resentment, my life began to function in harmony, tranquility and love To forgive does not mean to relate again with those people, nor to talk to them or get close to them, that is a very personal decision and it is not necessary to approach them and say I forgive you, but it is necessary to abandon revenge and anger and leave everything in the hands of GOD.

El día en que perdoné a las personas que me hicieron tanto daño y me liberé por completo del resentimiento, mi vida empezó a funcionar en armonía, tranquilidad y amor Perdonar no significa volver a relacionarse con esas personas, ni hablarles o acercarnos, a ellos eso ya es una decisión muy personal y no es necesario acercarse a decirles te perdono, pero sí es necesario abandonar la venganza y la ira dejar todo en manos de DIOS

In the path of our lives many people will hurt and disappoint us, but if something learned is that there are some people we should always forgive and one is our parents and this I do not say it for something religious is for ourselves because whether they were good or bad parents the damage they have done to us also come from a bad story told by them of other wounded children who perhaps were not cared for either we have to forgive our parents, If not, we will reach adulthood with that poison taking every time we remember it, the resentment consumes us so much that it damages our cells, our mind, our feelings, our life and our present, that is why we must forgive them to free ourselves from that ballast, that stone on our back that we have carried for so many years.

En el camino de nuestras vidas muchas personas nos lastimarán y decepcionarán, pero si algo aprendido es que hay unas personas que siempre debemos perdonar y una son nuestros padres y esto no lo digo por algo religioso es por nosotras mismas porque ya fueran padres buenos o malos el daño que nos hayan hecho vienen también de una historia mal contada de ellos de otros niños heridos que quisas tampoco fueron atendidos tenemos que perdonar a nuestros padres, sino vamos a llegar a adultos mayores con ese veneno tomando cada vez que lo recordemos el rencor nos consume tanto que daña nuestras células nuestra mente nuestros sentimientos nuestra vida y nuestro presente por eso debemos perdonarlos para liberarnos de ese lastre esa piedra en la espalda que hemos cargado por tantos años

I know that there are many parents who have hurt their children too much nothing is worse for a child than to be abandoned or abused by his parents a child who wonders why his father or mother does not look for him because he does not love him and it really creates a great resentment in some for having absent parents parents that maybe they saw once or twice and I do not judge anyone I know that life sometimes is very complicated and unfair some parents are irresponsible and others for things that go out of our lives we as mothers do not know if we are really doing good to our children and maybe we do from ignorance from love we think that by overprotecting them, pampering them and giving them everything they ask for we are doing good to them and it is our duty and maybe we think that by overprotecting them and pampering them we are doing good to them. We think that by overprotecting them, pampering them and giving them everything they ask for, we are doing them good and it is our duty and it is not so because we create spoiled and rebellious children and the same thing happened with our parents, some parents were super strict, screaming and even used to hit us when we did not do our homework or we were naughty and maybe their way of teaching was not the most appropriate, but it was the best, but it was the one they thought was the right one, that's why in spite of the father or mother we had, the best thing to do is to forgive them in order to live a more peaceful life, and not to focus on what went wrong, but on what can go right in the days we have left to live.

sé que hay muchos padres que han lastimado demasiado a sus hijos nada es peor para un niño que el abandonado o abusado por sus padres un niño que se pregunte porque su padre o madre no lo busca porque no lo ama y realmente crea un gran resentimiento en algunos por tener padres ausentes padres que quisas vieron una o dos veces y no juzgo a nadie sé que la vida veces es muy complica e injusta algunos padres son irresponsables y otros por cosas del se van de nuestras vidas nosotras como madres no sabemos si realmente le estamos haciendo un bien a nuestros hijos y tal vez lo hacemos desde el desconocimiento desde el amor pensamos que al sobreprotegerlo mimarlo y darle todo lo que ello pidan les hacemos un bien y es nuestro deber y no es así porque creamos hijos consentidos y rebeldes y lo mismo paso con nuestros padres quisas algunos padres eran super estrictos gritones y hasta solían pegarnos cuando no hacíamos las tareas o hacíamos travesuras y quisas su manera de enseñar no era la más adecuada, pero era la mejor, pero era la que ellos creían correcta por eso a pesar del padre o madre que hallamos tenido lo mejor es perdonarlos Para vivir una vida más tranquila, y ya no enfocarnos en lo que salió mal, sino en lo que puede salir bien en los días que nos quedan por vivir