(I hope that's not me 🙂)
I agree with you and unfortunately these things happen in life. Sometimes you feel like this after years of knowing the person, which hurts the most.
I am able to draw a line beneath people and simply move on without another thought of them coming to mind.
I've learnt to do that when life made me realize how short it is. It's harsh but necessary if you don't want to waste your time with people who don't deserve you.
Lol, nah you're ok, it's not you.
I'm not one to stay around someone just because that's how it's always been. I believe that people change, I know I have, and that sometimes people move in different directions and drift away. That doesn't mean that don't/can't drift back. Those others though, the ones that need to be cut out like cancer? Yeah, I'm good at dealing with them.
Fuckzactly!
That's my word for "fucken exactly! Lol.
It's hard to say no, but once you start doing that, your life will change in better. Lesson to learn early, if you don't want to be exploited emotionally and maybe financially as well.
Self preservation is difficult sometimes, but essential.