THE PANIC OF GROWING OLDER

As a child we where feed, carried with care, taken care of , all bills sorted out, we basically worried about nothing cause we know food was not going to be a problem and no matter what happens our parents will still put food on our tables cause we where there responsibility. Our happiness was what matters to them, they never want to see us in pains cause at that moment our pains was there pain. But we can never remain a child,growth must happen and this is where life starts.

THE PANICS OF GROWING OLDER

Every year makes us older, and growing older comes with lots of responsibilities life becomes sweet and sour, we tend to face the challenges of life and it’s beauty. At 18 years you are expected to be responsible for some decisions you make for your self. I can remember when I was still little I had nothing to think of I couldn’t even wait to get older cause I don’t want anyone to be in control of me I wanted to be an adult so fast cause I felt as an adult you have so much privileges, like going out at your paste, living alone basically having freedom.

But the freedom you get come with so much responsibility that when the reality of life comes when you know you have to strategize, make decisions work hard to earn money alots of unplanned events. Cause not everyone or every single grown person is successful. Some people get lucky with life but some they have to struggle so hard to get to the top of the ladder.

The panic of growing older. It can be overwhelming, right? But here’s the thing as we grow, we gain so much wisdomAnd experience. We become more confident in who we are and what we want. Plus life is all about growth and change, and getting older is part of the process. So let embrace the journey.

Growing older doesn’t mean we have to lose our sense of adventure, our passion, or our joy for life. Infact, with every passing year, we have the opportunity to become better and wiser and more resilient, and also be more confident in ourselves.

I also feel I’m in my panic years, and currently trying to be perfect and figuring out to be a better version of myself before my 30s, trying to accomplish a lot of dreams have got for my self, buying my dream car, having my own kids, getting married,getting my own house, having my dream job. All these ain’t gonna happen in a second I must work hard to be that woman I want to be in my 30s cause I’m capable of anything I choose to achieve for myself.

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