he thinks I am a real dishonest jerk though
That is an obvious concatenating foul that screams for a booking.
I admit I think you are a condescending jerk. When I suggested you needn't be one, you just couldn't help so from that point on, I consider the hypothesis validated. Whether that is a jelly-specific treatment or a personality feature is none of my business. Either way, your usage of the F-word is condescending beyond tolerable to me.
OTOH, I never said you were a dishonest person. I fully stand behind my opinion that you run a dishonest marketing campaign for Rabona but you have a formal position on their team and need to roleplay accordingly. Desperate times call for desperate measures so from my POV none of those actions indicated you were dishonest as a person and I challenge you to remind me if I ever said you were.