Hello friends, happy weekend to all, today I come to share my participation in this weekend's Weekend-Engagement, the theme I chose to develop was The annoying you since it seemed like a Interesting topic and I think I have a lot to write about on the subject, as always I hope you like my participation, without anything else to add I will start developing the post.
I am generally a quiet and distant person but when I get to know someone else I usually talk a lot, I am extremely talkative to be honest, I talk about any topic since I like to read a lot and I always have something to tell, once at the university I was talking with some friends about buying things online so I started talking about it saying how good shopping online had been for me and that I had never had any problems.
Well, it seems that a friend was quite annoyed by how much I talked about the subject because she turned around and told me to shut up and then she left upset, sometimes I think about that and I really can't understand what I did wrong, she was just talking about me experience buying online nothing more, that made me lock myself more and stop talking so much, I try to control myself so as not to overdo it, I am a person who usually takes comments very seriously and every time I speak I try to do it in the most calm way possible, this is not the first time they ask me to shut up and the truth usually hits my self-esteem a lot every time they do it.
Being with my family several times they have told me to shut up and that really affects me a lot to the point that I withdraw and am unable to speak again, that has made me the quiet one in the family, yes, it is strange, I am the chatterbox I'm quiet, nowadays I'm more into listening than talking and the truth doesn't bother me, I'm a good listener and thanks to that I've made many friends, I'm usually quiet but I have a lot of initiative, I'd like to talk a little more but I already have like one kind of trauma with that, I feel like my speaking makes people uncomfortable.
And well friends I hope you liked my participation, as always I really enjoyed writing it since as I mentioned before it is a subject that at least for me is very interesting, now without anything else to add I say goodbye, thanks for stopping by, see you in the next post, until next time.
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WoW I am amazed at how rude and lacking in subtlety and empathy people are, for them to literally tell you to shut up...definitely the problem is not you but them going through life causing trauma in others.
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It may be, but I also usually take things very seriously, maybe they didn't do it with such bad intentions, currently I usually think about it a lot before starting to speak haha, greetings.
I think it is good to talk, to open up and share conversation with people. In this case, with you, I think she could have dealt with the situation a little better and that she was rude to you, however sometimes it's also good to listen, to hear about the other person, and I know women tend to respond to that. A nice balance of talking and listening is a good thing to find.
Please don't let the rudeness of one person change who you are though, that would be a shame.
Becca 🌼
I try that sometimes I would like bad comments not affect me so much but it is very difficult since I am a very insecure person, but I keep going trying to improve every day. greetings!
You seem to be a very nice man, just from taking a look at your posts, and I hope you find a little more self-confidence. Trying to improve every day is a good way to do that.
Becca 🌷
Hello, thank you very much for your words of encouragement, as you say I try to improve every day, I constantly fight with my insecurities but I feel that I am improving, thank you very much for commenting, regards
Knowing your insecurities, (weaknesses), is a very important aspect as it allows you to determine how to work with them and improve. Rather than fight with them, try embracing and accepting them, and slowly diverting yourself away from them. Small steps is what it takes, and small steps combine to carry a person forward.
of course, I don't know your particular situation, so please forgive me if I am overstepping the line.
Becca 🌷
The truth is that you have hit the nail on the head with what you think, I think exactly the same as you, you have to know our insecurities to be able to work on them and improve.
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