Helloooo! My dearest friends from Hive! 🥰It's a pleasure to meet you all, I'm very happy to be back in this space since I was absent due to work issues, but hey, I'm here now! 🥳😉And this week's topic seemed interesting to me since more than one of you has gone through a not so good time for these reasons. 😞

In our journey through this earthly life that God has given us the opportunity to transit, he allows us to have experiences, sometimes bad decisions, I like to call it that way instead of mistakes, in my point of view it is not well said or expressed since human beings do not make mistakes we are not machines, only they do, we make bad decisions from our free will and it is up to us to reconsider and evolve towards the good that we have set out to achieve, although in that difficult stage it immerses us in loneliness, hopelessness, anxiety until reaching a deep depression ... but there will always be a solution, after all we manage to see the light of hope at the end of the road

My personal experience, a few years ago I was very much in love with a boy, he was my boyfriend for a year, but the relationship ended because we studied at different universities and there were routines that did not allow the relationship to evolve, but even though it ended the feeling in me although the years passed was intact ... there was always contact as good friends ... each one in their life and goals ... after years without seeing each other, a few months ago we met again and well we decided to have a special friendship ... but the feeling in me was still alive, the last time I saw him was an afternoon when we went out, had fun, rode his motorcycle, ate then we shared more than a kiss ... a wonderful afternoon for me ... 3 days passed and one morning I wake up I check my phone and see his WhatsApp status ... what was my surprise ?! The night before he went out with a girl who he identifies as his girlfriend... I was devastated and confronted him, I told him that I didn't want his friendship anymore and that I was going to distance myself from his life because he wasn't honest with me, I told him, coward! But both he and I didn't communicate well, on my part I accepted the open relationship knowing that I still had deep feelings for him and not making everything clear from the beginning.

Now before making a decision, I focus on my emotions and feelings, on my emotional intelligence, on my self-love so as not to fall into the pain that I felt, I was able to accept that reality checks push you to be a better person and focus on what is really best for you, everything that happens is because something better is yet to come! I hope you like it, I love you!! ❤️