A right balance, I think, would be to identify the trait that you are good at early on in your life.
I agree and if there is one thing parent's can affect, is helping identify what the child might like or be skilled for and supporting their path.
Destiny is still vague but there are words in ancient Sanskrit that come close to describing these genetic traits and individual's skill.
Pre-disposition is definitely close to destiny, and while we can fight to some degree, we are always bound to who we are - no matter how much we change.
Yeah. Children have their trait in them. It has to be identified, nurtured and groomed. Not worrying is what we can do as individuals and let it be what it wants to be but with a right frame of mind and providing all the support we can.
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