The Content-filled Personality

in OCD3 years ago (edited)

A few weeks ago, I got fortunate with deciphering a password for a locked account and was able to get in, change the keys and save the HIVE that was sitting in there from being bricked. The account belonged to @yahia-lababidi who was offering a 1000 dollar helper's fee to anyone who could get the account unlocked, but since I turned that down, he sent me three of his books instead. I only picked them up from the post office tonight, as they had to first go through customs (new laws) so haven't read them yet, but at least I have space on a bookshelf to hold them for when I do.

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This might seem like a bum deal to some, considering there was 1000 dollars on the table, but for me, this is far more meaningful, as it is about connecting and affecting someone's life positively. Someone I have never met and may never meet. Someone who wouldn't recognize me if we passed on the street, yet we still have a relationship and a trusted one at that. In my opinion, that is valuable.

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And yes, it does return the favor because to me, this highlights what I have always believed about on Hive - relationships matter. A lot of people think relationships on Hive are only as strong as the stake voted between them, but that is not the case much of the time, There are many genuine relationships on Hive and I am fortunate enough to count myself as someone who has a lot of them. There are so many people here that I could happily sit and have a beer with and talk about all manner of life, and many I would be happy to have in my home, even if I haven't met them in person yet. I find that interesting.

But, relationships on Hive do matter for economic reasons as well and it is because of the relationships I have built over the years here that I didn't feel like I needed a reward for helping someone who needed help. The time I spent working on it was time well spent, even though it didn't return anything directly to me that I could use. Well, now I have some books to read, but that wasn't known prior.

On Hive, stake is your voice and as @azircon was talking about in his recent post on different earning options, it is a vital part of governance on Hive. If you want to affect governance, you have to earn stake - but I will add the caveat, if you want to affect it directly you need stake.

I believe that through building relationships, it is possible to affect governance and decisions on Hive by influencing stake. For example, I started with nothing on Hive and while I have some HP now, it wasn't always the case and it took a long time to build to a level that it moves the needle. However, through my content I was able to build trust, relationships and some social capital which gave me an outsized voice compared to the direct stake I held.

It is actually an interesting thing to consider on Hive, especially back in the early days of no free downvotes, as like I was saying in this shared wallet article explaining some of the things to consider, each piece of content is a proposal that can attract stake. When there were no downvotes going on, people could vote for their own proposals with little repercussions, and many did in various forms. However, many also voted for content that wasn't their too, which meant technically "taking a lower payment" on what they could have got by voting on themselves instead.

The interesting part is that while people can argue what is valuable content or not, the people who voted for other people's content back then valued it enough as a proposal to take a "loss" in earnings on it. When considering this, it is actually quite something as it goes against the entrenched idea that people only work on Hive in their own economic self-interest. This isn't true a lot of the time, at least not directly.

Indirectly though, stake supporting content that adds value to the community and blockchain, is a decision of self interest too. For most large stake holders, while they don't mind earning daily on content and curation, they would much prefer the token value of Hive to sky rocket, as that increases the value of their entire stack. Getting a ten percent reward increase on weekly amounts is a tiny gain compared to a 10% increase in the value of the token.

If the content supported is detrimental to the value of the token, it is going to have the reverse effect, at least over time. When value-degrading content is incentivized, eventually it will affect the price of the token and a 10% loss on the entire stack happens. For those counting, when HIVE increases 10% in price from where it is now, the blockchain technically becomes 23 million dollars more valuable. Because that is on the total supply with most of the supply being in the hands of larger holders, that means it is in their best interest to support content that supports the growth of the ecosystem, which supports the demand on the transactions, the tokens and eventually increases prices.

Now, content doesn't have to be a post or comment these days, it could be the millions of transactions on Splinterlands for example or, personalities and behaviors themselves. People forget that the way we conduct ourselves is indeed part of our content, even if it doesn't appear on a transaction directly. For example, the time I spent systematically deciphering the key was an "off-chain" activity, but it did add on-chain value to at least Yahia. Similarly, the majority of the relationships I value on Hive do have a paper-trail of comments, but the value of the relationship is intangible, it is held in the head and heart off-chain.

It is the lack of transparency on these relationships that can make people believe that there is "funny business" of some kind going on, but that doesn't mean it is true. Doesn't mean it isn't true either though, and generally people who believe they are entitled to or deserve more than they get, think those who are getting more are doing something underhanded.

However, our behaviors are part of our content, yet they are not open to the same possibility that a post or comment is. While people think downvotes for example should only be used for something like plagiarism, in a community, we also want to think about other aspects of value than straight monetary considerations. An economy after all is driven by consumer behavior on supply and demand, not just the suppliers. So, while many will disagree, if content is the only way to affect behavior, than when people behave badly, that is the string they will pull.

A person can be a dick on Hive all they want, as there is nothing stopping them from behaving in that manner, but there is nothing saying that they need to earn on their content either. Generally, the people who are being dicks tend to at some time or another run afoul of people who get tired of their behavior and with no way to to affect them other than what is open to affect, they get downvoted. They might claim that it "isn't fair" because there is nothing wrong with the post, but that is what I was saying, the post is only a part of the content for the account, the behavior of the account is part of it too.

AS I have stated many times before, personality matters on Hive in regards to rewards and those who have a personality that people enjoy for some reason, tend to do well and get support. However, this works in the negative also, so the personalities that people don't enjoy, are going to be negatively supported. This is because the personality of the account is part of the account itself, meaning that it is open to judgement in the same way a post is. Be a dick, and expect to be stuck in a hole.

Personality is a far harder component to measure, which is why people like the tangible evaluation of posts themselves, but, this is a community, so behavior has to be considered in the mechanisms, as it affects the value of the ecosystem as a whole. Behavior of others affect us too and we react in various ways due to it. If a stakeholder comes across behaviors that are financially incentivized but are in their opinion, degrading the value of the blockchain and therefore their investment potential, the only logical thing to do is to clip the behavior, to disincentivize it. As reward earnings are the only way to possibly affect behavior, it makes sense to take rewards off the table.

The thing is, people can complain and troll for free on any number of centralized platforms, but Hive is one of the very few places where content is rewarded. But, it isn't just content, it is the personality too and I suspect that if people did have to pay for content they consumed on Twitter and they were invested in the success of the platform itself, they wouldn't be rewarding the trolling either. While it does create drama and generate clicks, a platform with only drama gets tiring very fast and ends up having a tiny minority of very outspoken personalities, polarizing arguments in the hope to get paid in attention, which they can then convert into add revenue of some kind - sounds healthy.

But anyway, this post is getting really long and I am getting tired. There are many topics embedded in here but if you only take one lesson away from this, it is Don't be a dick unless you are very good at it and witty enough to build a personality around it. From my experience on Hive so far, very few have been anywhere near clever enough to be amusing, let alone deserving of support.

In Yahia's inscription inside one of his books he gifted me, he is wrong. I am not good, but I am a thinker, which is based on my observations. BY paying attention to the world around us we can learn what behaviors work and what do not and just like learning to walk, with practice we can improve ourselves, improve our behaviors. While we may use rolemodels along the way, this is not about mimicry, it is about discovering who we are and who I is, in order to find a place in this world that empowers us to be our best, and inspires others to be theirs too.

In my opinion, this is the sign of a valuable relationship, Two people working together to be their best as individuals and ultimately, for each other. A community is a more complex entanglement of many relationships and while there will always be conflict that drives change and innovation, part of building a healthy group is demonstrating healthy habits.

Gandhi said, Be the change you want to see in the world, but this is only part of the story, as people seem to think it means that the only way they can affect the world is through their own actions. However, each of us have the ability to influence others in the network through our actions, which means not only do we demonstrate being the change, but we can also support the change that we want to see. This creates a change economy and on Hive, we can both use the voice of our stake and influence the minds of stakeholders to support the changes we want to see on the platform.

Our behaviors shape our world.
Our relationships make our world worth living.

Taraz
[ Gen1: Hive ]

Thank you @yahia-lababidi for the books, they will be treasured.

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Taraz, I’m so glad that my books have landed, safely, in your home!

You don’t have to agree with me about your being good --that’s semantics and humility on your part-- but I do maintain that your example and integrity inspire me.

I agree with what you say about the importance of personality and community. This might be a virtual space, but it’s real people in real time and you’re welcome in my home, anytime 🙏🏽✨

When you find the time/headspace, I’d be very interested to learn what you think of the books after reading them 🤓

Cheers, mate!
Yahia


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Safe and sound. I wanted to add an aphorism here, but I didn't want to choose one randomly. It is nearing 2am already and I have work early in the morning as it is :)

Virtual spaces underpinned by blockchain and crypto make them very similar to real-world property. Soon, people will realize that it is a playground that can keep expanding, but the value will pool where the valuable people play.

Have a great evening!

Well put, that: the value will pool where the valuable people play.

Head off to dreamland, man, there will be time for more, later...

Sweet dreams, Taraz, waking ones, too :)

That is pretty cool.

I know how it feels to receive a gift from a Hivian far away. (Yer bro)

"This is because the personality of the account is part of the account itself, meaning that it is open to judgement in the same way a post is. Be a dick, and expect to be stuck in a hole."

And I have been that Dick.

Who was patiently given advice to stop being one. (Also by Yer bro)

What I have taken away from a few relationships on here, relationships like...(The KP brothers), is that I am now in it for the long haul.

Next month (Nov) is my 3 year Hive anniv. And I find myself thinking more about Hive as a long term investment, and less like a hobby.

Who was patiently given advice to stop being one. (Also by Yer bro)

You got patience? Geez.... he is getting soft!

Relationships matter so much here, but they matter in general too. Who we spend our valuable time with, dictates how we feel about our time on this earth.

In the end it is the interpersonal relationships that have the most positive and fulfilling impact in this world. Without them we are only a mortal machine. Each of us could do so much more in that building. That is what makes it truly real.

I think a lot of people think they would prefer to live on a deserted island, so they can do what they want - yet without other people, what we can do is very limited.

It is a shame more people do not see how their own behavior can effect the community at large. I like Hive Block Chain. I do not use other social media outlets. When I have questions about down votes I will generally go to the source. I then evaluate and decide what I am going to do. I was up in the air recently with one individual that I liked his humor, unfortunately his content has taken a hard turn in what I feel is a wrong direction.

Communities are made up the people that populate them, one community owner I felt made the right call, and the token value increase reflected that call. Then the community members had the call over turned, and the token value reflected that also to the detriment of the token price.

Many people seem to think Integrity is an old fashioned thought process, but the truth of the token value would show differently. I do not think there is any resolution, and that things will be as they are for sometime to come with the individuals and the second layer community. Actions sometimes do speak louder than words.

I was up in the air recently with one individual that I liked his humor, unfortunately his content has taken a hard turn in what I feel is a wrong direction.

Some people are clever, yet when they are also emotionally unstable and attention-seeking, it isn't attractive or is, but in the wrong ways.

Token pricing is interesting for communities as long-term, they should reflect activity, but in the short term, it is all FUD and FOMO. A lot of the owners look to increase price through hype, not activity and ultimately, the token will fail. There is not much HIVE hype and the token reflects that - yet, it is still here as a community and growing.

"I was up in the air recently with one individual that I liked his humor, unfortunately his content has taken a hard turn in what I feel is a wrong direction."

I was recently, taken to the wood shed, one might say by a Hivian who cares. I listened. I got it. And have even more respect for him.

Do you think this person you speak of would responds to a kindly worded redirect. I did...

Oh You were talking about Me..?

Lmao,

That is why I read your comments and posts

You Get It Too...

That is why I like You and the KP bros.

There are those that would like to build, and those that like to destroy. Since I really enjoy Hive, I think I will stay on the build side of things.

relationships on Hive are only as strong as they stake voted between them

I've been doing things wrong all this time yet again? XD

I didn't feel like I needed a reward for helping someone who needed help

This is how I think all the time and this is why I like you XP

Be a dick, and expect to be stuck in a hole.

Don't dicks normally like being stuck in holes?

I'll see myself out. [slinks away]

I am not good

Yes you are.

Don't dicks normally like being stuck in holes?

I think so - why be a dick otherwise? :D
They must aim for the results they get, which makes complaining about their own "success" peculiar.

We all do Hive wrong according to other people. I know a few who believe that vote-trading or shitposting are the best ways to go. Some think spamming is too - if they didn't, why would they be spamming? People are strange. People are also predictable.

If there was only one true right way and everyone was doing that it would be so tediously boring I think I'd be just gone XD so I'm glad we're all doing it wrong ;D

it would also be valueless for those doing it, as there would be no scarcity. There would be money in it one a centralized platform though... like Facebook, Twitter and Instagram... :)

People forget that the way we conduct ourselves is indeed part of our content

This is one of the most profound truths I've seen about the blockchain. It seems to be something lost on so many. Here and in life. Generally.

As I've opined before, the blockchain is a microcosm of the world - with the good and bad that goes with that and how the community regulates itself (or doesn't) is just how it is. Similarly, I see people behave here, as they behave in real life. There is quite a lot one cannot hide behind a keyboard.

Which brings me to the friendships. I have made firm friendships in this space. Like you, there are folk here that have a genuine and open invitation to join me around my table. They have been, in no small part, important for getting through all the ick associated with covid. And more.

A great post. Thank you.

PS I hope you're recovering from your own ick?

Similarly, I see people behave here, as they behave in real life. There is quite a lot one cannot hide behind a keyboard.

Yes and once on the blockchain, always on the blockchain :)

there are folk here that have a genuine and open invitation to join me around my table.

I have eaten with quite a few of them now, and I have even hosted a couple in my home - it is an incredible place if people actually stopped and investigated it past the money aspects.

PS I hope you're recovering from your own ick?

I am going okay, thanks for asking. And yourself?

Yes and once on the blockchain, always on the blockchain :)
Exactly.
it is an incredible place if people actually stopped and investigated it past the money aspects.
Again: exactly.

Glad to hear you are getting along. I am soldiering along: day by day, thank you 🙂

Authentic relationships are the secrets to real happiness. The more we invest in these priceless and intangible connections, the more significant and fulfilling our life experiences would be - leading to non- regrettable deaths.

We all die alone, but I think many are going to die having lived alone too.

Yes, that's true. Loneliness is detrimental. At least, with the support, company, and cherished memories of loved ones produced by great relationships, our eventual demise would not be too sorrowful as compared to literally dying alone.

he is wrong. I am not good, but I am a thinker, which is based on my observations.

I read the whole post and you earned my respect . Goodness is not built in one day but years. your work itself indicate how good are you. Its your excellency to deny you are not good but your behavior approach tells everything . i have not find any personality so far on hive blockchain who does good thing but deny accepting. There must be some reason like what i observed you don't want to be egotist as ego always damage the personality.

You're right, @sand126, in what you say. And, @Tarazkp's actions speak for themselves. Since my early days on this platform (previously, known as Steem) he was always helpful and altruistic -- generously giving of his time, welcoming newbies onboard and not calculating what's in it for him.

We're lucky to have such noble, selfless souls among us--online and off.

unrestrained, perhaps my ego would be a monster - though I doubt it. I don't have much of an ego that requires feeding, I don't care much about attention, but it is necessary at times for practical reasons.

I remember that post. It is the gentlemanliness of you to have turned down $1000 reward.

I think one week ago, I came across with that user's post, which I liked and made a comment. Then we started to follow each other. A relationship built on HIVE, you caused, and added a value on the blockchain. Thanks.

Glad to have met you. 😊

I think, at the end of the day, we all take cues from one another & look for examples of how to live well — sometimes, we look in the wrong direction, like celebrity worship, etc…

Have a great day ✌🏼

True, everyday we learn someting from the posts here.

The small fraction of people I met years ago made me come back from hiatus. Monetary incentives were nice but while I was away and Hive was created I learned the same faces were still active and it was all the reason I needed to try out the blockchain drama again.

I don't regret my time here as it gave me a broader view about the world of crypto and how powerful creating social relationships between strangers can be even if I have never seen their real faces ever but the interactions were real enough for me.