Love or Money? My take on this

in HiveGhana11 months ago

Hello everyone, is yet another week with other exciting topics to explore.
These are very nice topics and I hope everyone who is a lover of the The Hiveghana community can express themselves.
Marriage is deemed to be able to very important aspect of our life journey, marriage has been there since creation, and no wonder the Bible affirms marriage as a blessing from above. He further says that he who finds a wife finds a good thing.

If late, the trend has really changed as we are getting more breakups and other problems in our marriages. What could possibly be the reason? Join me as I take you through my stand on why I will choose money over love in our modern society. In some last, no one will even bring up this argument.

But our world, people, and our thinking have obviously changed as well. Now people fancy material things than any other things, like cars, mansions, clothing, etc. People find happiness in this stuff and this is what most people consider when choosing a life partner. Someone will say money can buy you everything including love. Love which should have been a gift from the heart is now about money. Our ladies of today now see love as the ability of the man to provide all their needs for them. You can love your wife with all your heart, body, and soul but if you can't provide everything for her, her love for you will be less.
Social media has contributed to this, people turn to living fake lives and this is what we are learning of late. We all want to live a luxurious life but we don't want to pay the price.
I once advocated for love over money some time ago but looking at the trend of today, love alone can't win the race.
This is not to say, I will use my money to get what I want, love will continue to exist so long as we live, but the race now is to get more money and you will surely get what you want.

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I will definitely love my wife with money, however I’m not going to spend my entire money just because I want to prove to her I love her, naa, I’m going to support her dreams for her to also to be richer so with or without my money she can survive and not be move with someone else money.

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I'm glad you changed your perspective towards the love over money.

Money makes the world go round , same thing for relationship. I love the fact that you want your wife to be independent

Of course is very important to give her that space

Hi @awuahbenjamin
you get some heavy downvotes from @erikah, that reduce all the rewards for your posts.
I think it is because you hurt some rules of plagiation or spamming in the past (that happened to me also).
Maybe you ask @erika, why you get downvoted. Or you ask directly in discord: https://discord.com/channels/333959953951752194/441322865212784640

I have issued countless number of explanations and even demand reasons from her but to no avail m. Let’s wait and see this time if she will be a little considerate

Yes, let's see. And as I said, you can ask in this discord channel if you are on a blacklist.