SELF DOUBT/PHOBIA

in HiveGhana2 months ago

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Every individual on earth have his or her challenges in life. There are diverts obstacles we encounter along every journey. At long run we tend to forget about the race that is set before us just to admire other people success once the get to the finish line, neglecting the fact that they fought different battles just to reach where they are today.

I happen to have a lot of challenges in life, but one of them happens to be overcoming my doubt and believing on myself that yes I can set a particular task before me and achieve it.

I clearly remember getting admitted into College for my NCE PROGRAM in the year 2018. At the cause of school orientation it was said that "any student who get below 1.00 CGP will be withdrawn from the institution completely," the first thought that pop into my mind was "Hillel, are you sure you can scale through this institution without being withdrawn?" At some point that was fear and self doubt.

I so much believe in the power of supporting one another in overcoming challenges.

Few weeks after the school orientation/doubting myself, I made sure I took out time to study my course mates. After studying I found this one guy who was good with calculative courses because that was where my main fear was.

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I know you will be wondering how can a student from a tertiary institution have a phobia for calculative courses. Omoh that has been a thing for me.

It took me time before I could approached him. Even though he was reluctant to accept me as a friend.

Abdulqudus took it upon himself and made very sure he created time just to put me through calculative courses and organized a tutorial for those who that where left behind.

But as time goes on I stopped seeing him as a course and a friend. At some point I started seeing him as a mentor. Abdulqudus was indeed a helper sent to me by GOD.

I have so much admired those who graduated from high institutions with good Cumulative Grade Point (CGP) not minding the challenges they faced while in school.

I never for once pictured myself being a graduate due to the phobia I had for calculative courses but here am I today.

At some point I thought I will be defeated by self doubt and struggles but not at all I have been determined to overcome my trouble be it of any kind.

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Self doubt can put you where you are unable to focus on anything else other than your perceived faults. People experiencing self doubt may have difficulty making decisions, pursuing goals, or taking actions because they fear failure, judgment, and inadequacy.

To you reading this you can inspire someone out there suffering form self doubt.

Thank You For Reading

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I think we all have that one doubt in us ,but we tend to over come it with time

You're right.
And we can only overcome it by building a certain belief within one self that yes I can do it or overcome that fear once someone out there supports us with a helping hand.

Thank you for reading😌