Loving Is Easy When You're With The Right Partner

Love can be the best thing that has happened to you, and it can also be the worst thing, it all depends on who you've chosen to love. One of God's greatest desires for man was to create for him a suitable helpmate, someone who was perfectly compatible with his nature. This he backed up with the statement, "He who finds a wife finds a good thing" and in proverb 31:10, the bible asked, "Who can find a virtuous woman?"This means not every woman is virtuous and not every man is honorable, so the beauty of a relationship depends greatly on who you've found.

I've not had so many relationships, but I've seen characters displayed by a lot of female friends. I have had 3 relationships and each has their weaknesses and strengths, sometimes one has to pick out the less evil and dwell with it. My current relationship seems to have fallen within the bracket of less evil, so far I've not seen any evil in it even though I have been trying to figure out what her weaknesses are. The funny thing is; I never believed she would be the girl I'll finally settle with, but who am I to question love, she seemed just perfect for everything I have ever desired from a lady.

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One of my most desired qualities in a lady is her "Smile". Smile too often and you've won 40% of my heart already. She might have read this and she ensured she gave me so much of it until I started wanting to know more about her. I realized it didn't end with just a smile, she had almost everything I ever desired from a lady, I never expected someone will have those qualities because I set high standards when it comes to matter of relationship.

This lady is understanding, I didn't need to explain myself for anything, she seemed to understand every one of my actions. She's supportive, she once told me one of her greatest desires is to work together with her future spouse to build their dreams. I have heard a lady say, "she can't support their husband, he's the man, he should do it". I try to distance myself from such ladies because I know I may not always be at my best, what happens when things get worse. So if I know a lady doesn't believe in support, probably from experience or life philosophy, I stay away. I was happy to know my lady is always there to support me.

We talk about everything. Communication is key and she doesn't shy away from it. What more blessing can a man have than a woman who wants to talk to you, about everything. She's flexible, ready to learn. We've both adapted to things we weren't used to, all in the process of becoming compatible. She enquires about me before making any vital decisions. She forgives faster and rarely gets angry. She's hardworking and she appreciates little things. The truth is, she had made loving easy.