Hive Reachout inleo initiative 22. Believe in yourself to succeed.

Hello my beautiful people in #hive Reachout. This is a very good week. The more reason I call it a good week is because it reminds me so much about Christmas. Hahaha 😂😂.

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Guys do you know that we are actually approaching Christmas. Since last week I began to think about all the chicken meat, soft drinks, special rice and stew. Awwwwwn! I can't just wait. Are we all ready to move to this Christmas? Enough about Christmas. Let's delve into the topic for the day.

Confidence: This is the first word there. When I checked the oxford dictionary, the first thing that I see there is that confidence is self assurance . So, when we say that someone has confidence in what he is doing, it means that that fellow has self assurance. Been very sure of what we do And the truth remains that whatever we find doing if we don't have confidence in it, then it can't work. There will be so many times when people will question what you do. They talk you down and it will make you look foolish. But if that person have what we call confidence in what he or she is doing, then what people say don't really matter. But what will matter is what we think of what we are doing. Do you think you are doing the right thing? It is for the right purpose? Then you move on and never allow people to talk down on what you know is good for you. Just keep going. Some day every one will see what you have achieved and come to believe in you.

Secondly, we have the word self- esteem in the other hand. I don't want to say that both of them means the same thing because no two English words means the same thing. There must be a slight difference.
Self-esteem means "Confidence in one's own worth; self-respect". This is also from the oxford dictionary. We need to have confidence in our Worth. It has to be there if we must succeed in life. Self-respect. If I don't respect myself then I can go ahead and live my life anyhow that I want.

WHY DO WE NEED TO HAVE THESE TWO?
To answer this question I will quickly make a very good look at what is happening in this life that I have experienced. I have noticed that we have two kinds of people in this life. We have the people that are confident enough to keep pushing no matter what is happening. We also have the people that can easily give up when people talk down at them when they start doing some different from what others are doing. But for the first set of people, they hardly give up on their dreams. They just keep going and never allow people shout them down. While the second set never amount to anything in life because they always want to please people in what they do.

THE CHOICE IS OURS TO MAKE.
We need to be determined to succeed and never allow people talk down at what we do. Believe in yourself. Have confidence in what you are doing. Keep doing it until you see good results.

That will be all from me for the topic of the week.
I will love to invite my few friends as usual to join us ride for the week.
Let's go @chidistickz, @desirelady. Come right away.

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