This is a wonderful topic and is something that's happening in our day to day activities. I will also share some of the relationship red flags I've experienced .
1.TOO BUSY. When you call so many times, send SMS yet the other person doesn't respond or call back or text back you to let you know he or she is busy at a moment will call you later but instead kept quiet as if he or she haven't seen any miss calls or text messages. Through out the day or after a day you hear the person saying she is busy that's why she couldn't call back or text back, is a red flags. Nobody is too busy for people they really love and care about. Time is a proof of love and creating time for the people you love in any little space you have in your busy schedule will mean a lot to them.
2.NO MORE AFFECTION OR EMOTIONAL STRINGS ATTACHMENT. When you does something for your spouse to make them happy and the person doesn't replicate it back or doesn't show any emotional attachment to it, is also a red flags. You buy the person a gift, send romantic SMS and the person hasn't shown any excitement about all you've done, is telling you the person doesn't value or appreciates your efforts.
3.NO MORE RESPECT. Respect is reciprocate and should be something worth doing as long as you love your spouse. But when the spouse doesn't respect you anymore, doesn't accept your opinions or ideas anymore or rather talk to you in a disrespectful manner without any remorse feelings just know is a red flags. You can't claim you love and not respecting them.
4.HAVING CONSTANT MISUNDERSTANDING. Relationship comes with a lot of challenging and misunderstanding for sure because two different people are trying to mend their ways to fit into different behavior and culture. But when little things that can be solves within few minutes or days cannot longer be solved again . Little issues keeps causing misunderstanding again and again is a red flags. If the spouse doesn't want to take correction or rather refused to admit his or her fault and always blaming the other person over whatever that's happening is a red flags.
5.LACK OF COMMITMENT. Two can not work out well in a relationship without a sense of commitment, agreement and sacrifices. If one is committed and the other doesn't commit but leaves all the efforts and sacrifices to only one person is a red flag
6.NO FORGIVENESS. Life is all about forgiveness if you want to go far and succeed in life. We fíght and quarrel with one another, is part of life. But we need to forgive each other and move on. As this popular adage that says " to er is human but to forgive is divine". Besides, nobody want to stay around a spouse that keeps bringing out the past mistakes and reminds one of their past experienced. Lack of forgiveness is a red flag in a relationship
7.UNFAITHFULNESS . An unfaithful spouse will cheat and will not see or feel bad about it even if they're caught cheating. A cheating person can not stick to one spouse and automatically is a red flag because is on the line of destroying the other person or relationship
8.ALWAYS MAKING EXCUSES. A person that's not longer interested in the relationship will always make excuse for his or her actions. Make excuse of not having airtime to call or text you, not having enough time to visit you, and a lot of excuses that will show you clearly is a red flag.
9.COMPARISON. Comparisim is a mother of ungratefulness, inability to appreciates what your spouse has done for you. Trying to compares your spouse ability to do things exactly the way other peoples spouses does theirs. When your compare your life with others people own you will live a frustrated life and you will be overwhelmed with a competitive lifestyle trying by all means to met up to other people standards.
This are some of the relationship red flags I can share with you base on my experienced. Hope you enjoyed reading through.
There's no relationship where compromise and adjustments can not be made. If a person finds himself/herself in one that isn't flexible, it's best to just out and leave.