Hey Oceanbee hope you are doing good.
There is nothing understandable with war. It is the void of everything, it eats lives eats your happiness eats evrything. Nobody wins in a war.
Friends of mine in Hungary are bringing food and clothes to the border. Already over 300k refugees left Ukraine and over 60k of them crossed the border to Hungary. I hope the parties will at least do a cease fire and start negotiating. The other outcomes are just too scary to think of.
!LUV
solymi