So many do the float on by thing. It seems easy, and is easy, although one must pay the boatman at some stage, so to speak. You know?

The good thing for you is that you see that now, you self-reflected and that motivates, or gripeivates, you into action. An attitude adjustment that comes from oneself is preferable to one from another person; it's more likely to take hold, to stick.

Ownership, responsibility, effort and action...Sometimes difficult to deploy, for me too for certain, but sometimes we have to get our big boy pants on and fucking dominate like a heard of wilderbeast on the tundra. Take a more active role in our lives I mean...Take the bull by the horns.

So sweet Asher, it isn't even my birthday and you send prezzies. It's Valentine's Day tomorrow though...I see your alterior motives. 🤪