I can understand your overall message due to your effective use of language, however I can agree it is improbable for me to fully embody your experience. From experience & philosophy the folly in this train of thought is theoretical egoism; which in essence can isolate us from consensus reality & Others.

Nobody has to understand what we feel, what we want, what we vibrate, for this to become valid.

This is a very valid point. Personally, I strive to communicate my experience to the other because my body/mind/essence yearn to reach out to someone outside of my experience. Sometimes this leads to conflicts which in my way is a healthy exercise in expanding my reality tunnel.