It is the work of Satan for people to have hatred against each other. This even has to do with people who do not know each other. You should not hate anyone and in the Ten Commandments of God Love your neighbor as yourself is one of the greatest rules which we have to follow.
The teaching of God is for a man to love his wife and if any hatred sets in, it means that Satan has taken control over the house. The couples have let Satan into the house and that’s why they are developing hatred for each other.
In Ephesians 5:28, the Bible says; So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself
God has commanded every man to love their wives as much as they love themselves. If you love yourself, you do not harm yourself and the same thing goes for your wife. No one will ever harm who or what we love. If you love yourself, you won’t harm yourself and if you love your wife, you won’t harm her.
Now, the question is, what causes a man after ten years of marriage to raise his hands to beat the woman he has always loved? It is the devil.
James 3:16 says, For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work.
This is where the devil resides. Any home where hatred has just taken over shows that Satan has take over and control of the house and that’s when the couples should pray more for God to restore the love that has been existing in that house.
As couples, we should always pray well and hard so that the devil will not take over our homes. No woman wants to be hated by her husband and no man wants to be hated by his wife.
Love lives in a home where God is in control so we should let Him take control all the time.