Winning, or rather wanting to win often leads to defeat. So one of the most famous political and war strategist suggested in a major historical document the following :

कर्मण्येवाधिकारस्ते मा फलेषु कदाचन।
मा कर्मफलहेतुर्भूर्मा ते सङ्गोऽस्त्वकर्मणि॥ २-४७

roughly translated to:

You have a right to perform your prescribed duties, but you are not entitled to the fruits of your actions. Never consider yourself to be the cause of the results of your activities, nor be attached to inaction.

When we discuss trading, I basically discuss the same strategy. It is our version of the The Art of War

When you trade BTC future, you are just following a process, completely detached and independent of the outcome. Your job is to follow the process and not think about the outcome. Because if you do, there is a very high chance that you will fail.

Same thing said here....

And this is the way, you play with your heart...this is what happened when you do...