Always try to be yourself.

in BDCommunity4 years ago

We are human beings. We have to work for our existence. No matter what type of work you prefer or doing you main motto is to earn the bread and butter for your living here. In this way we all have an identity. Its a way of building your identity sometimes we have others way of building an identity. Maybe that is by your behaviour or something else that connects and represent you to other people and they judge you on that basis. Whatever you do or what respect you earn there will always be an positive or negative identity. Now it depends on you how shall you want to be.

In our life you can't make a false identity you have to be what you are. You cant pretend to be what you are not. Maybe you can have a fake intro to people but you wont be able to maintain that for a long. Sooner or later it will come to light. I mean to say how long you can have an fake impression if its not your real one. You cant have that for a long time.Trust me i have seen a lot of this kind.

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যদি শুদ্ধ ভাষায় কথা বলে অভ্যাস না থাকে তাহলে একটা সময় বলেই উঠবেন -"বাবু সামনে যেওনা সেখানে পেক আছে।"

Yeah it a common dialect on my mother tongue which we use frequently on this purpose of pointing the unusual activity of a person how it turns to his usual one. You are you. You cant escape or cover what you are. If you has a habit of stealing now matter how changed you are in a very corner of you there will be a soft hand for stealing whether its a good,money or others opportunities. If you are from a noble character then now matter how hard you try to be an evil but you will always have a regret on doing that.

Always be yourself. Its the easiest way to move on life in every way. Its the best possible way to lead have inner peace. Sometimes it happens that something is happening or being pushed on me what i dont like or prefer then i try to say that i cant do that because i am not comfortable on that. So they will do that in other way. How can you do a work in which you are not comfortable with. Let me say something on me.

From childhood my physical growth is quite good. Like i am tall and in a balance health. So many of my relatives comment that you are physically impressive try to go in the defense. There are plenty of them saying that. But personally i respect that job but i have never any addiction on that.Because they do a lot hard work, they have a hard training and so on. I cant do that. I am not comfortable with hard physical activities. So always i try to answer them in this way that i am not comfortable with their working way. I will try something in my way where i will be comfortable. So its me,its my opinion, its my comfort zone and its on my identity. Others cant throw anything on me as per their judgment. Its on me how will i take it its. I always try to be myself on such things. I always follow what i want and where i can be me.

That's why i suggest always be yourself. There is nothing on dancing with others tune. You cant even be successful on following others actions. You may learn from others but in the end you have to do what you are. Because without being the real you, you wont be able to do your best. How long a person can dance on borrowed feathers? A short period of time.


So guys that's all for today. I think i have been successful on describing to you what i am trying to say to you guys. Its all about my own opinion and realisation. You may agree or disagree on some points or may also add somethings with me. If so feel free to let me know through the comment section. I will be very much pleased. Thank you for your time.

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 4 years ago (edited) 

হ্যা এটাই। নিজের ব্যক্তিত্ব নিজে বহন না করে অন্য একটা ব্যক্তিত্ব জাহির করার কোনো মানে হয়না।কিছুদিন আগে আর পরে সবার কাছে আসল পরিচয় টা এসেই পড়ে।
সময় নিয়ে পড়ে মতামত জানানোর জন্য ধন্যবাদ।