"A rupture in the fabric of our life creates a chasm that will not be knit back together. Responding with clear-eyed realism starts the deep work of finding a way forward." -- ShadowsPub
When we fully accept that a rupture will not be repaired, we stop looking back in hope and start seeking the new path we need. It may be slow going, but growth will come through staying the course.
That's exactly the process I'm in right now...