I remember during my 20s. I had this habit of talking a lot. Like I used to do few things and used to talk a lot. This was because a lot of people used to be in habit of putting me down. And that habit had made me want to show off more and also it lead to more issues.
Few issues that I am paying price over the period of time. It has made a lot of issues for my life and also it had made things worst over the period of time as people wanted to leech off and also made things worst as this hurt the finances even more too.
More you talk about your progress. It would work against you in real life. Relatives, family, friends won't like that. Your followers on social media may like it. Your vlog and the youtube followers may like it. Most of the time people don't like you doing a lot of show off. Men doing show off talking a lot always backfires. For women it may work out but that too is not possible.
Do things. Do more progress and hide that progress. Don't tell anyone that you made any progress because those people would not like it. And also make sure to hide progress as much as possible on the financial front. This way you would be able to get more things done and also you would be having more control over your future.
Show off is something that hurts you even more. When you show off your things. You would make enemies. Yes, even at home. You make enemy every time someone see you as making progress. And also you would make enemy out of the wrong set of the people. Some of those people in the long term also cause those issues with the finances, relationship and people.
I made these mistakes very badly. So much so my 30s has been all about paying off those debts and also the karmic things that developed. I also think that things that are meant to happened just happened. There was no way to change those and also there was no way to fix them any differently.
Most times it is from our mistakes that we can learn from, and our future cannot be defined by trying to please people. We only do what you want to do, let them only see the results, telling people our progress only exposes us to danger. Thank you very much.
We certainly make a lot of mistakes but we have to have balance. We shouldn’t boast about things in most cases because that’s more of pride the deadly sins than others. We shouldn’t shy away from being proud of some success in our lives but that also shouldn’t lead us to be spending all kinds of money.
I think a good way to live is to respect the seven deadly sins in that you don’t partake in them as much as we can. If we can steer away from them and lead a balanced life we are in good shape!