I don't know why people love to talk behind others ' backs. Can't say a shit in front of that person, but at the back, tons of stuff to talk about, nothing positive, filled up with negative stuff. Even these kinda behaviours come from such a person, so close that you can't even imagine such toxicity from there.
As a human, it is kinda ovbious that we will make mistakes, we all do, right? Okay, I admit I made mistakes, broke promises. I swear, my intentions were never wrong; it wasn't ever my intention to harm anyone willingly. Maybe I ended up miscalculatinga few things that made situations worse. Yeah, it's my fault, I'm to blame, do criticise. But what's the use of criticising if that doesn't help in any way? Lemme know my faults, right? Confront me, make me listen to what I have done wrong, and mention the ways to improve, that's the actual goal, right?
Now, there are a few close people who are criticising me with something that isnt related to them by miles. From the person it sparkled has ZERO issues with me, but they are super excited to talk about that, to criticise me, and the concerning thing is that they are making up stuff and making this spicy to talk about. Oh, they won't talk to me, but rather to other people, with the sense that I fix it. There is nothing wrong, actually, actually. A few misunderstandings that I have already sorted with person A, he never had any problem with me. In between, XYZ is making a fuss out of this and is kinda spreading useless stuff about me to my other friends. But, when they are in front of me, they are super cool and normal about it, no problem, everything is completely fine, but in my back, hell no.
It's like they are deliberately tarnishing my image before others. If their intentions were pure, they would have hidden even if I had made mistakes. Or they would have come to me and talked about these facts, not keep shouting to others, which kinda makes things worse rather than solving.
Even though it's not like I had enmities with XYZ, rather they used to be my good friends, still, such behaviour from them. It's quite hard for me to understand what the real gain is out of these; I see no benefits, but instead a spoiled friendship.
So yeah, next time I go to my hometown, I'm gonna sit face-to-face with them, and ask what the real issue is with me, would ask for a proper explanation of all the ill talks, and ask for an explanation of the fake statements and all. I would love to see what they have to say, as I committed none of them.