Dude i only had a chance initially to have a brisk look through your post - I've taken the time now to read it all. I love your honesty - its humbling.

Sorry to hear about Simba - that sounded heartbreaking, but it sounds like it's made you all stronger and more resilient. Fair play to your mother-in-law for minding them all this time. I hope your reunion is like this one:

Ya, I'm back posting again. It can be tricky to find the time, but i love being creative and my day job does not really require much creativity. The community here seems great as well and some old friends like yourself are still here.

I post to communities since you advised me and seem to get more traction, so thanks for that. Or do you mean to use "community" as a tag?