Thank you so much for your comment, and the many lovely questions asked too. Let's get right into it, I have clearly meet so many persons that always gaslight others, and I am glad I could manage myself with such persons, they can be really manipulative. The term "gas light" actually first originate from a 1938 play with the title "gas light", it tells s story of a very manipulative husband. You can research more on that so see how the term form. People who gaslight rare find themselves in a situation where they are the one being gaslighted so if the partner did get to express gaslighting back to them, it's obvious party are just being manipulative to each other, which happen to be a rare case. It's always a case of a victim and a bully most of the time though and the victim really suffer in such situations. Thank you for your amazing questions.