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A girl who has spent most of her time in life on her own is unlike any girl you’ve met in your life. She’s an independent and strong individual whose walls are built up the highest.
She created her own world out of scratch and made sure to keep it safe and protected. She spent life taking care for herself. When no one was there to catch her, she became her own safety net, her own support.
So, you should know that reaching out to her will not be easy. You won’t be able to touch her soul, to become a part of her life that simple.
Because a girl who has been alone for a long time will find it hard to make space for someone else in her life. She’ll struggle to let anyone inside her soul.
A girl who has been alone for a long time will be a challenge because…
1. SHE KNOWS EXACTLY WHO SHE IS AND WHAT SHE WANTS
She has a strong sense of identity in life. She worked hard all her life to get the things she wanted, so she’s perfectly aware what kind of person would be perfectly compatible with her nature. Someone who would complement her in every sense of the word.
2. SHE WON’T SETTLE FOR LESS THAN A GENUINE LOVE
Many times, she went down that road and fell for people who were searching for something different in life.
So, she realized that the next time an emotionally unavailable person asks for permission to get inside her world, they won’t be welcome.
She would rather be alone until the real one comes.
3. SHE HAS NO TIME FOR CHILDISH GAMES
She’ll never be a part of those childish, stupid, manipulative games. She wants a genuine person who’ll be open with her. A man who won’t be afraid to show her his real colors.
4. SHE HAS HIGH STANDARDS AND SHE’S NOT AFRAID TO SHOW THAT
She decided she’s going to be a free agent until she finds a person who is worth her time. Someone who’d love her the same way she would love them. With an open heart and pure mind.
She values herself and her time, so she will never settle for something she doesn’t deserve. She may have extremely high standards, but that’s just what her experience taught her.
5. SHE IS NOT READY TO TRUST YOU YET
She won’t be able to give in that quickly. She’ll need thousands of reassurances that you are worthy of gaining her trust.
You’d have to do anything to prove to her that you don’t mean any harm.
Please be patient and try to understand her. It’s her traumas. They haunt her. They live inside her soul.
6. SHE FEELS SAFER ON HER OWN
She already saved herself too many times, so it is only natural for her to feel a lot safer on her own.
She seeks comfort and peace in the comfort of her own presence. So, it would take a lot of effort and honesty for you to become that exact safe place to her.
7. SHE WON’T LET YOU IN THAT EASY
She’s pretty much used to her own personal space she has created for herself, so don’t even think that she’ll give up her world to let you in.
Everything she earned in her life, she did it on her own. So, if you ever get a chance to get inside her heart, consider yourself very lucky.
8.SHE’S STRONG
It was the only option she had really. When you are on your own for such a long time, and there’s no one who can help you to pick your leftover pieces and motivate you to keep moving, you become your own support. That’s exactly how she became her own hero.
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