°° Life Becomes Difficult Because You Have To Please Everyone °°

Because in this world there are more than 4 billion people, you will also meet the characters of different people. Some are fun and you want to be friends forever, but some are annoying and if you can avoid it forever. Unfortunately, you don't always get to choose the people you want to meet with. Especially if you have entered the world of work, whether you like it or not, you must be able to work with people who have various characters.

You will waste energy on unnecessary things. Maybe that's what makes your life feel so burdensome. Because the environment, and how you deal with the environment is a very decisive fact of success. So that you don't feel tired all the time.

Among the people around you, there is bound to be a source of information for everyone. They know updating things that no one else does. Such people are very useful and dangerous. They can give you the info you need, and can also spread the information you don't want to share.

People like this usually have a warm nature, are fun to chat with, and are friendly with everyone. But smart people will think twice about sharing confidential info with them. Because it is not recommended to be friends to confide in.

The signs that someone is lying can actually be seen. Because the mouth can make up stories, but body movements can't deceive. Whether it's knowing from other sources, or understanding yourself from reading gestures. Being lied to hurts. Apart from feeling annoyed, there is also a sense of being ignored. Is it true?

However, a smart person will not immediately confront if his friend is lying in front of his eyes. Besides being wasteful of energy, it also feels less elegant. They will either remain silent, or follow the game. Only then can you laugh at his lies in your heart. What's important is that you know they can't be trusted.

Would you agree that being teased and teased is more annoying than being challenged face to face. Satire was much more painful than when it was said of his true intentions. But people who tease are usually people who don't dare to express their thoughts directly. Responding to them is just a waste of time. Smart people know what to watch for and what better to ignore. Pretend not to hear, or pretend to be wiser.

Your life has become difficult, perhaps because you feel the need to please everyone. You want to be a friend to everyone. Therefore, you strive to change yourself in order to conform to acceptance. If you have this, it is only natural that your life will be difficult. Because no matter how much you try, you won't be able to please everyone. Smart people know they don't have to have many friends. Because lots of friends don't guarantee they won't be lonely, because there's always someone they can rely on. Smart people know exactly who deserves to be taken care of.

In addition to knowing who is worth keeping, they also know who to avoid. There are manipulatives who will dedicate their entire lives to making you subservient. There are narcissists, who will always try to focus everyone's attention. There are people complaining that can suck up the positive energy that you have, so you are tempted to complain. Because the environment is very decisive. You need to be able to identify those who are a bad influence in your life, and then avoid them.

Liver management is a must-have to live your daily life. Just like finances that must be managed, emotions too. One way is to always keep your distance. That way, you won't be easily provoked by information you don't know about the real you.