You buy your own car and people laugh because it's a second hand or not a Mercedes,BMW,Audi, you get a nice job people laugh saying it doesn't pay, you get your own place to live , it's not a nice area to live in, you get a new partner and people say their personality isn't good or they've slept with this person and that person, it's weird that even when people are making positive movements, people still want to talk bad on others,my brother my sister, as long you're happy and proud of yourself forget what everyone else says..