5 Ruthless LESSONS ABOUT LIFE, LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP (which we often learn too late)

Life tests us and then offers us the lesson. Even if we are learning it today, it doesn't mean the class hasn't received it sooner.

As long as something does not concern us directly, many do not pay attention to it. Like when we read in the newspaper: "2 deaths in road accident". We ignore the report as we have no connection whatsoever with those affected. But at that moment life was trying to teach us that everything could end in an instant.

These are 5 lessons we need to learn before it's too late:

1. PEOPLE LIE: No one is always 100% sincere. There will be times when we will be told half-truths or alterations to them. We lie for fear of being judged, criticized or punished. Ask, "How are you?" it triggers in many the answer: "Well", when the absolute truth is that they are thinking of suicide.

This is the life that teaches us to be kind. They all have a history we don't know.

1. LOVE MUST BE

POWERED :

As we bleed, we will deal with our emotions. The love we proclaim to someone one day can easily turn into hatred, resentment, or apathy

That day she said to him: “I think we should go on a trip”, to which he replied: “I'm too busy to travel”, it was life that taught him that love must be fed with actions, not just with words.

He got it by standing in front of the judge while they were getting divorced.

1. YOUR PARTNER IS A REFLECTION OF YOUR VALUES: The most important thing when choosing a partner is how aligned our values ​​are. Vision is the second. Many say it's the other way around, that the most important thing is to want the same, to which I answer: what is more important, what do we get or how do we get it? I might want to be a millionaire, too, but I'm not willing to do "whatever it takes" to get it, maybe it is.

This is why values ​​come first. This is life that teaches us how easy it is to sleep with the enemy.

1. NOT ALL WILL GO GOOD: Life has a starting point (when we are born), a story (what we live) and an end (when we die). For many, this end came suddenly while they were still telling their story.

This is the life that teaches us that "feeling good" is not reaching a goal, but learning to play, to be happy, with the cards that have been given to us.

1. NOT EVERYTHING IS WHAT IT SEEMS: two people kissing does not mean that they love each other, parents eating with their children is not synonymous with a happy family, which is your best friend today, it could be the one who cheats on you tomorrow . We see what we want to see, or in many cases what we need to believe.

This is the life that teaches us not to confront each other, everyone is on a different journey.