I truly believe the only way to stop war or fighting is to teach our kids and others to take the focus 100% off of ourselves and train our focus on helping others.

Especially in western culture (war based economy) we are highly self centered and narcissistic.

This is why we start false wars and proxy wars in far away lands, pure greed of selfishness to a sociopathic level.

Learn to love when others cant, dont or wont love you back....AND carry a big stick just in case