I am right there with you about chit-chat. It's one of the reasons I hate talking on the phone. If there is a reason to call, ok. But if not, then it is just awkward trying to fill the void with words.

However, it is truly amazing how sometimes, just the littlest thing can have a major impact. When I was in boot camp, there was a guy that was just like the one from full Metal Jacket. Looked like him, suffered as he did, and seemed to be losing it just like he did.

Long story short, after boot camp he came up to me and thanked me. When I asked for what, he said for saving his life. I was astounded. All I did was be nice to him and treat him like the human being that he is.

It's truly amazing what impact simple gestures have. Imagine how many there are that we don't recognize, but mean the world to another person.

In short, just be nice, people. Sometimes, that's all it takes! 😊