I can more than relate to this. Yesterday it was one whole year since my mom passed away. You never know what happens but remmeber that things can change far sooner than you think they would.
So therefore thank you for reminding all of us that yes please enjoy life and spend your precious time with the people you love as much as possible.
Brian
I'm so sorry for your loss @brianalex. But I'm also glad you have learnt the most valuable lesson of living in the present.