I completely agree with everything you say, even I identify myself in certain things, I also sacrifice part of my dreams to maintain a relationship with a girl that in the end was not worth it, I lost subjects in college, I lost time that I could have taken advantage of Striving for what I wanted, thank god I realized what I had done in time .... I have not been a very active person in that travel, let's say I LOVE TRAVELING AND KNOWING NEW THINGS (I'm 22 years old and I'm studying Maritime engineering and my life after I graduate will be pure travel) but my family has never been wealthy and travel and things were very limited. It is true that finding people who are worth truly for a relationship is complicated and more one that suits the dreams and desires of us. It is better to be happy and fulfill our dreams. I love reading your blog, I feel that your experience will serve me a lot in the future, women with that mentality are hard to find women.